We talk about it until we're both at peace. If there was ever something we could not agree on, I think that's a pretty big sign we should do nothing, pray, get advice, etc., until we are both able to be at peace with it. I think it's dangerous to act if you both feel so strongly.

It was a car crash, but absolutely fascinating to observe.

I once sat through a "sermon" by a 19 year old with zero qualifications at a youth camp. His dad was in charge of picking the speakers. He made us give this kid a standing ovation...before he even spoke. He spoke about relationships, and his dad continually stood up and clapped as he spoke.