Thank you!!!! I have to try this. Even if I hafta pay 10 bucks for six. I will find a way 😭

This looks so gooood!! What is it???

Absolute perfection!!! Thank you again!!

I am shaking with excitement!!!

Aaa thank you !!! 😭💕

So jealous of your line qualityyy!!! And your curry. Mmmm

Seriously, though. This is so cute.

She has that mentality that she's old and and set in her ways, too and I really can't imagine an age where I would just willfully stop trying to learn or improve myself. It sounds so boring.

did nothing but sit in her bed and pick fights with her roommate. I was mortified. I'd try to encourage her to go to the activity room. Socialize. Do something that isn't in bed and she would get mad and said she just wants to sit. It's so discouraging. IDK if she'll ever change.

Thank you. I remind myself of that all the time. I wish I could force her to do different things that I know will improve her quality of life, but it's a mindset too, and her mind is not in it. I don't know if it ever will be, either. She was in rehab recently, and had tons of opportunities and just

short of breath. There are so many layers to it, and even though I think I understand a lot of them, and I try to understand, it's still just so... exhausting.

at all. Years ago I had been taking her for walks around the park to build up her stamina and lung function, and she was doing really well! It was great. But then I took one day off, and she got so mad she refused to do it anymore. Now years later she can barely walk to the bathroom without being -

I'm sure that could be one of the reasons. I think there are a lot of reasons. I'm the nicest one, so I don't fight back. She is getting older and her health isn't the best so she has lost a lot of independence. I think she could be a little more independent, but she doesn't want to fight for it -

She'll call my uncle too, when she's mad at me. She's tried convincing him that I hate him for reasons that are beyond me. She says she wants all her kids to love and support each other, but then she does stuff like that.

I don't know.

I have such a long, rocky history with my grandma, but I try to do what is right. I'm doing everything for her because her own kids can barely take care of themselves.

She has COPD and breathing is hard, and I empathize, and I've tried making her life as comfortable as possible with no help.

If she's not talking about how she should die, she's criticizing everything I do. I feel like nothing is good enough or right. She has no hobbies either, and refuses to try. Sometimes it feels like she is miserable and wants to make sure everyone else is, too.

Do you have any media recommendations for tagalog?? My first GF was Filipino and I was so amazed listening to her family, wishing I could understand 😭She taught me a few phrase, but it's so long ago I've forgotten omg

That is so cool. I'm just sitting here in complete awe! Thank you thank you thank you. You are right about getting older and having less time, but I'm definitely going to see what I can do. Now I just need to pick one of the 500 languages I want to learn LOL.

Tagalog is actually on that list, too