Laney
shadowkoneko.bsky.social
Laney
@shadowkoneko.bsky.social
Hi~ :3 I am ablack and green cat, non-binary (she/they), pansexual, poly, blind and wheelchair user. I love cats and video games but most importantly, my partner, Mike.
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Who's free tomorrow to help us finish moving out of old place? (SE Pdx)
Two disabled queers need help getting our security deposit back...
Super broke after the move and can't even afford a Lyft back to the old place...
Rides, hands, $$ all helps
@/$ conundrum9999
February 9, 2025 at 3:30 AM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
It's fascinating how people are quick to judge and point out someone's change in attitude. Yet, they aren't so quick to realize their behavior. May have caused the change in the first place. Take time to ask yourself if you're the cause and if you are. Try to help fix it~
November 19, 2024 at 5:08 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
There's a lot of people who don't believe that they are able to change the world. After all, they're just one person. But, I promise that you're able to someday. Try to start by changing someone's perspective of the world. All it takes is one person to tip the first domino~
November 17, 2024 at 1:01 AM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
I'm not sure people really understand when I ask them to forgive someone. You can forgive anyone or everyone. It doesn't mean what they did was right. But, it also doesn't mean that you have to allow them back onto your life either. Forgive them for yourself and move on~
November 17, 2024 at 9:39 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
Rain is mostly associated with negativity and gloom. But, it can also be tied to life and beauty. Both plants and animals need it to grow and flourish. Sometimes, all it takes is a little perspective to see how beneficial a situation can be. Both for and around you~
November 16, 2024 at 12:01 AM
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♡~Marina's tip of the day~♡
Although helping others smile has its own reward. You shouldn’t be so focused on the happiness of others. That you forget your own happiness too. It’s not selfish to love yourself. Try to find a way that benefits both of you and smile about it together~😊
January 16, 2024 at 11:23 PM
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♡~Marina's tip of the day~♡
No matter what you do, there'll always be people talking about you. As much as I hope that it’s in a positive manner. There may be some who question your judgment or doubt you. To combat this, smile and live life your way. It’s not theirs to worry about~
January 18, 2024 at 11:44 AM
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♡~Marina's tip of the day~♡
Do you know why successful people are considered “unstoppable?” I can tell you that it wasn’t because they didn’t fail sometimes or had doubts. Everybody has those thoughts from time to time. They're unstoppable because they kept moving forward despite those thoughts~
January 31, 2024 at 4:31 AM
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♡~Marina's tip of the day~♡
Nobody knows what burden everyone else carries every day. Just like you don’t know how they live their lives. So when I tell you to be kind, it’s not only for yourself to feel better. It’s less pain and stress to others because maybe they could use some kindness too~
February 7, 2024 at 11:53 PM
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♡~Marina's tip of the day~♡
Sometimes, it's not about what the problem is that you're facing. It's about your conviction towards working through it. The same boiling water that hardens an egg also softens a potato. Your freedom comes from being able to adapt within your situation~
February 10, 2024 at 6:10 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
It’s okay to fall apart sometimes, that just proves you’re human. Not to mention, it presents an opportunity to rebuild yourself. You just have to decide to focus on what’s tearing you apart. Or, focus on what can keep you together. Either choice can teach you a lesson~
February 11, 2024 at 1:09 AM
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♡~Marina's tip of the day~♡
Do you know why I ask you to try and help someone smile every day? Because sometimes, all it takes is just one smile to change the world. Maybe not the whole world in general, but their world. And that’s what matters, because you’ve made their world that much better~
February 11, 2024 at 11:40 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
I know that I’m also guilty of putting others before myself. But, it still doesn’t excuse you from taking care of yourself either. You’re just as important, take some time to see that even though you may be someone else’s anchor. Make sure you're not drowning yourself~
February 12, 2024 at 10:45 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
People like to talk, some may spread rumors or false information. But, no matter what is said about you. Nobody has the right to judge you for what you have been through. Why? Because they have no idea what your past was like and how you felt during those times~
February 13, 2024 at 11:56 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
Valentine's, a day revolving around showing love and appreciation to those you care about most in life. While I believe this should be any day of the year. You should also direct some love towards yourself. After all, what better day to treat yourself for all you’ve done~?♡
February 14, 2024 at 11:16 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
Love doesn’t mean anything until you back it with action. Just as it’s tough to trust someone until they provide proof, they can be trusted. What you say and what you do can mean two different things. It’s when you put them together that gives them their meaning~
February 15, 2024 at 9:54 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
There is so much that happens in our lives. It's very easy to forget the good that happens throughout it. As well as forget how valuable we truly are as we progress through life. Never allow your struggles make you doubt your value. You're trying your best to survive, ok~?
February 20, 2024 at 11:42 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
When it comes to having a goal in life, you shouldn't try to be better than someone at something. The only thing that you need to focus on is being better than who you used to be. There’s always a chance for change. You just have to be willing to take it~
February 21, 2024 at 10:26 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
Unfortunately, life will always be complicated. So you shouldn’t wait for things to get simpler, easier or better. Because they won’t unless you make them. Learn to be happy in the present with what you can do and with what you have. Otherwise, you may run out of time~
March 25, 2024 at 10:47 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
I know there may be times when it feels like you’re on your own and that nobody can help. Sometimes, my advice may not even be able to reach you. But, I would like you to please trust me when I say. I’ll always be right here waiting for you if you’d like to talk. Okay~?
March 27, 2024 at 12:29 AM
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Marina's tip of the day~
Everyone can be a little “difficult” at times. But that doesn’t mean that you should miss out on a good person just because they’re a bit difficult. Just give it some time, for time doesn’t change anyone. It just reveals their intentions, and good people never come easily~
March 28, 2024 at 1:05 AM
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♧Day's Marina of the Tip♧
If you have an opinion about how someone should live their life, please raise your hand.
Great! Now, put it over your mouth.
Congratulations, you just kept your opinion to yourself! Good job~!
April 2, 2024 at 12:00 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
I often hear, “Love is a strong word.” And I just can’t fully agree with that. Love can be as strong or as meaningless of a word YOU make it to be. Depending on how much you value who you're saying it to. After all, a Diamond is just a shiny rock, we just put value into it~
April 13, 2024 at 1:25 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
Whether you realize it or not, you have strength. All the times you’ve pushed on even when you felt that you couldn’t. You still get out of bed every morning, every time you make it through the day. Acknowledge that so far, you’ve been strong enough~
April 14, 2024 at 11:26 PM
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♡Marina's tip of the day♡
Everyone in the limelight has their own shadows behind them. Nobody has the right to say you don’t deserve your success. For they don’t know what you've been through to get there. Instead, try to teach them, help them understand that success takes more work than they think~
April 16, 2024 at 11:01 PM