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selondonabdl.bsky.social
SE London explorer looking for a safe space & a kind soul.
@selondonabdl.bsky.social
Hey there! I’m a 42-year-old ABDL Switch who just leveled up to living in my first solo place. I’m looking for a friend (and fellow switch) who values kindness and emotional safety above all else. (only 18+ profile )
Just been doing some reflecting lately. Thinking about dipping my toes into the dating scene eventually, but definitely moving at my own pace. No rush, just vibes. ✨ #abdl
January 24, 2026 at 4:27 PM
Thinking about getting back into the dating scene. I’m specifically looking to connect with guys who are open-minded and enjoy exploring new perspectives. If that’s you, let’s chat! #abdl
January 24, 2026 at 4:08 PM
i not easy living on my own because i have speech impairment and learning disability #abdl
January 24, 2026 at 3:53 PM
Looking to host an ABDL friend at my place! I’m interested in exploring a Daddy/Little or Big Brother/Little Brother dynamic. If you’re looking for a relaxed spot to be yourself and hang out, let’s chat and see if we click! #abdl
January 24, 2026 at 2:39 PM
I’m planning to move into my own place for a few months as a 'trial run.' I really want to get a feel for living solo and build up my independence. #abdl
January 24, 2026 at 2:27 PM
Living solo and loving the independence! 🏡 Looking to meet fellow ABDLs for low-key days out and local adventures. Skipping the big events for now—keeping it simple and budget-friendly. Let’s connect! #abdl
January 24, 2026 at 2:27 PM
If you’re someone who can be both playful and protective, I’d love to see if we click #abdl
January 24, 2026 at 12:36 PM
My favorite things:

The Classics: Antiques, museums, art galleries, and musicals.

The Outdoors: National Trust/English Heritage walks and exploring abandoned places.

Home Vibes: Cooking, 80s music, gaming, and horror movies.

The Soul: Spiritual growth and meaningful conversation. #abdl
January 24, 2026 at 12:36 PM
I’m all about finding "love without sex"—that feeling of being special, cared for, and completely safe. I’m a bit shy and take a little while to come out of my shell, so I’d love to chat online and build a foundation first. #abdl
January 24, 2026 at 12:35 PM