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Self-Love Rainbow (Dominee)
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Dominee | She/Her | Author & Making Rainbow🌈 Art | Mental Health Advocate and Self-Love Encourager
Married to Lucas 🏳️‍⚧️😍
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SelfLoveRainbow
Website: https://www.selfloverainbow.com/
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Celebrating the quiet progress, the invisible growth, the stuff nobody else notices. You're doing better than you think you are. I'm genuinely proud of you. YOU ARE AMAZING. #GentleReminders #QuietProgress #YouAreDoingGreat #SmallStepsMatter #SelfCareSupport #MentalHealthMatters #YouAreEnough
A cute cartoon walrus with a little heart-shaped nose lies on its belly against a purple background. Above the walrus are three small heart doodles. The text reads: “I’m proud of you for making progress in the ways that no one else sees or celebrates. So proud. You are doing an amazing job.” The image is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
November 20, 2025 at 4:29 PM
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Life doesn't have to be perfect to find the humor in it. Sometimes laughing at the chaos is the most healing thing we can do. What made you laugh today, even if it was just a little bit?
A cute cartoon hyena stands smiling on a bright pink background decorated with small yellow stars. Above the hyena, the text reads: “A little hyena to remind you that it’s okay to laugh at the silly moments, the awkward moments, and the chaos. Sometimes you’ve got to find humor in the mess.” The image is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom. #GentleReminders #SelfLoveRainbow #FindTheJoy #LaughThroughLife #SelfCareSupport #MentalHealthMatters #PositiveVibes #EmotionalWellness #TakeItLightly #WholesomeContent #YouAreDoingYourBest
November 18, 2025 at 5:01 PM
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Honoring Transgender Awareness Week by celebrating the courage, joy, and authenticity that come with living as your truest self. I am endlessly proud of my husband Lucas and his journey. Everyone deserves the freedom to live as their authentic self. #transgenderawareness
November 17, 2025 at 8:09 PM
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Your body isn't a machine. Rest isn't something you need to earn. You deserve it simply because you're human and you need it. Period.
A cute purple cartoon dragon curls up and sleeps peacefully on a lavender background. Small pink hearts and a yellow star float nearby. Above the dragon, soft text reads: “It’s okay to rest. (You deserve it).” The image is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
November 17, 2025 at 4:53 PM
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Tiny frog. Big message. You’re doing great, even if it doesn’t feel like it today. 🐸💖 #GentleReminders #DailyAffirmations #YouAreLovable
A small, bright blue cartoon frog with big eyes sits on a lavender background. Above its head floats a pink heart. The text above the frog reads: “Itty bitty frog wants to remind you that you are lovable, wonderful, and everything is going to work out.” The image is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
November 13, 2025 at 1:37 AM
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Remember Book It from school? I made a grown-up version with no pressure, no deadlines, just cozy low-stakes reading bingo for November
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A colorful bingo card titled "The Cozy Reading Challenge" with an introduction explaining this is a grown-up, low-pressure version of the Book It program. The 5x5 grid contains pastel-colored squares with gentle reading prompts like "Read at least one page before bed," "Listened to an audiobook while doing chores," "Read instead of doomscrolling on social media," and "Opened a book... and that's it." The center square is marked "Free Space" with an illustration of stacked books. At the bottom, there's a circular Book It badge design with a rainbow, stars, and an open book, alongside text that reads "Now it's time for the fun part! Once you finish five squares - write down one way you want to celebrate and treat yourself!" Small decorative hearts and stars frame the design.
November 5, 2025 at 7:30 PM
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It’s never too late to start over. Even if it feels far away, little steps forward matter. You haven’t missed your chance - even if it looks different from what you once wanted. You can still find love, happiness, fulfillment, purpose.
A square white note is pinned to an orange background with colorful confetti, stars, and hearts. The note reads: “It’s not too late to make a beautiful life for yourself. Please don’t give up on that.” The image is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
October 16, 2025 at 2:52 PM
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Here’s to the quirks, the weirdness, and all the parts of you that make you unforgettable. What’s your favorite “weird” thing about yourself?

I used to write a ton of Soap Opera based Fanfiction (Passions, General Hospital, and All My Children) and I feel like it made me a pretty great writer. 🤭
A cute cartoon troll with brown skin, big black eyes, and tall purple hair stands smiling on a bright blue background. A pink gem glows on its belly, and white stars sparkle around it. Next to the troll, black text reads: “Your weirdness is part of what makes you wonderful.” The image is signed “SelfLoveRainbow.”
October 10, 2025 at 12:00 AM
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HAPPY OCTOBER. Here’s to cozy sweaters, perfect pumpkins and an amazing AMAZING month for you.
A festive illustration with a background of pumpkins, black cats, ghosts, witch hats, candy, spiderwebs, and stars on a purple backdrop. In the center, a large green heart contains the bold text “HAPPY OCTOBER.” A purple background with small stars and hearts. A black witch’s hat with a blue band sits in the bottom left. Above it, rainbow-highlighted text reads: “May this new month bring you the perfect weather for fuzzy sweaters, a pumpkin just the right size, and many moments of warmth, love, and comfort.” The artwork is signed “SelfLoveRainbow.”
October 1, 2025 at 4:21 PM
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I hope the universe surprises you with unexpected moments of joy and happiness today. (Also - I hope you drink water, remember your meds, and have an awesome lunch!)
A cute cartoon platypus wearing a space helmet floats in a starry blue sky with planets and stars around it. Beside the platypus, the text reads: “I hope the universe gives you so many reasons to smile today.” The artwork is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
September 29, 2025 at 10:24 PM
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The pressure to meet everyone else’s expectations can be crushing. But their goals don’t have to be yours.
A bright pink background with small purple heart doodles. In the center, two stacked sheets of paper are illustrated, with the top page showing the text: “Their expectations are not your goals.” A yellow pencil lies across the top of the paper. The image is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
September 23, 2025 at 7:35 PM
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Some days feel heavier than others.
A cute cartoon black cat with big brown eyes and a small yellow crescent moon on its forehead sits against a pink background. Around the cat are small yellow stars and a moon. Beside it, the text reads: “You are brave and capable and you can get through this.” The artwork is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
September 22, 2025 at 7:44 PM
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This is your reminder that you don’t need to “earn” care. You deserve food, rest, and kindness just for existing. So eat your lunch, drink your water, and know that I’m proud of you.
: A colorful cartoon lunchbox with rainbow and cloud designs is open to reveal a notebook page with a message that reads: “You are doing an amazing job today. I’m so proud of you! Don’t forget to eat lunch!” Next to the lunchbox is a matching thermos and a pencil. Stars, hearts, and sparkles are scattered around the white background. The image is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
September 19, 2025 at 9:08 PM
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Some days we need the raccoon-approved basics: rest, snacks, hydration, and being a little cute. None of these things fix everything, but they help!
A cute cartoon raccoon sits smiling against an orange background. Beside it, a yellow banner reads “Trash Panda Reminders.” Below are self-care reminders with little heart icons: Get enough sleep or take a nap Do what makes you happy Eat something delicious Spend some time outside Drink your water Get creative Be cute The image is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
September 18, 2025 at 4:30 PM
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Okay, one of my Patrons asked me to doodle a Canada Goose - *Canada* Goose - since when is it called that? 😂😅
I’ve been calling these Canadian Geese my whole life. So now I have to know… what do YOU call them? A) Canada Goose or B) Canadian Goose?
Cute cartoon illustration of a Canada Goose standing upright with a happy expression. The background is teal with sparkles, a yellow star, and a blue heart. At the top, it says, “Do you call this animal…” with two options: “A) Canada Goose” and “B) Canadian Goose.” The image is credited to SelfLoveRainbow.
September 12, 2025 at 2:48 PM
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Back in 2013, I made the very first version of the Self-Care Planner. It's full of journaling prompts, reminders that you're doing better than you think, self-care ideas, and of course, lots of doodles.
I am so so proud of it this year!
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Two colorful spiral-bound 2026 self-care planners are displayed on a lavender background with yellow star doodles. One planner has a bright blue cover labeled “2026 Witchy Self-Care Planner” with illustrations of stars, hearts, and moon phases above a rainbow. The second planner has a turquoise cover labeled “2026 Self-Care Planner” with stars, hearts, and a rainbow above clouds. Both covers note: “A daily planner filled with journaling prompts, self-care ideas, cute doodles, encouraging messages, & more.” The bottom of each planner says “12-Month Planner, January 2026 – December 2026.”
September 9, 2025 at 3:47 PM
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We talk a lot about healing from things, but we don’t always talk about healing with ourselves. About making peace with who we are, especially when it’s been hard to love that person. So if you’re doing that work I hope that you're celebrating it too because it is SO important.
A cute cartoon manatee stands with a gentle smile on a purple background. Next to it is a large speech bubble decorated with stars and a heart, containing the text: “We don't give people enough credit for healing the relationship they have with themselves. It's often a difficult and lonely journey. Every step in the right direction is something to be proud of. Every toxic cycle broken is worth celebrating.” The artwork is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
August 28, 2025 at 7:42 PM
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New worksheets just dropped on Patreon! www.patreon.com/posts/unpack...
We all carry baggage through life, sometimes out of necessity, guilt, pressure, or just because we don't know how to set them down. These worksheets are about digging into that.
August 25, 2025 at 2:42 PM
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It's back-to-school time for a lot of you! Students: here are some small ways to take care of your brain, body, and spirit.

Teachers: Self-Care for Teachers was built from tips shared by actual teachers a few years ago!

*I know these won't apply to every situation or district
A colorful graphic titled “Self-Care for Students” lists tips inside bright shapes with doodles of planets, headphones, a calculator, palette, globe, and more. Tips include: Give yourself time to adjust to new schedules Make time for fun and relaxation Ask for help when you need it Create a nourishing evening routine to wind down Find a good way to decompress after school & homework Acknowledge your talents and skills that aren’t school-related Remember that your grades do not define your worth Practice positive self-talk & cheer yourself on Celebrate the little everyday wins Use an app for time-management Get up and stretch or take a walk after studying Learn breathing techniques to lessen stress Signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom. A colorful graphic titled “Self-Care for Teachers” lists tips inside bright shapes with doodles of a backpack, headphones, lunch bag, books, clock, and more. Tips include: Leave work at work — don’t take it home with you Spend your lunch break focused on you Find a healthy way to decompress after work Prioritize your to-do list (& know it’s okay not to finish everything) Set an alarm to remind you to go home Have a cut-off time for reading work emails Remember you’re only human and there is only so much you can do Set firm boundaries with your time Set clear boundaries for communication outside of work hours Stretch or take a quick walk when you can Find moments to breathe, relax, and reset Focus on a good work/life balance Signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
August 21, 2025 at 5:51 PM
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Some days survival is the accomplishment. If all you did was keep breathing today, that matters. That’s enough. You don’t have to have big wins every day. Keep putting one foot in front of the other, you wonderful human. You’re doing better than you think. 💛
A colorful illustration of a toucan with a rainbow-colored beak perched on a branch. Above its head is a block of rainbow-highlighted text that reads: “If the only thing you accomplished today was keeping yourself alive – that is good enough. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other.” The artwork is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
August 20, 2025 at 6:12 PM
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A little snail to tell you that setbacks happen but don't get discouraged!
A cute yellow cartoon snail with a bright blue shell and a rainbow trail smiles against an orange background. Three yellow stars float around it. In a large white speech bubble above the snail, the text reads: “Setbacks are part of the process. Don’t get discouraged – just keep moving forward. You’ve got this!” The artwork is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
August 13, 2025 at 7:16 PM
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You look pretty today!
An illustration of a hand with brightly painted nails holding a purple handheld mirror with a blue reflective surface. Inside the mirror are the words: “You look pretty today!” The background is teal with scattered yellow stars and pink hearts. The image is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” at the bottom.
August 12, 2025 at 10:30 PM
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A little love note from the universe (or maybe just from me) for anyone who needs it. Everything is going to work out. Maybe not perfectly. Maybe not how you expected. But you’ll get through this.
#LoveNote #SelfLoveReminder #PositiveVibes #DailyAffirmations #Encouragement
A bright blue envelope with a purple liner is open, revealing a note decorated with a small shooting star. The note reads: “Everything is going to work out. –xoxo.” Above the envelope, text says “A little love note from me to you,” with the word “love” highlighted in green. Pink hearts surround the image, and “SelfLoveRainbow” is written at the bottom.
August 11, 2025 at 4:08 PM
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💯% wish someone told me this/emphasized it sooner. save urself the trouble. form the boundaries then always enforce them unless its a reasonable/healthy exception. its a beautiful form of self care/love💜
#boundaries #maintainboundaries #HealthyBoundaries #selfcare #selflove 🪷
August 10, 2025 at 10:33 PM
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New free for everyone coloring pages because my birthday is Thursday and I want to celebrate you too! www.patreon.com/posts/free-b...
#coloringpages #patreonfreebies
A promotional graphic with the heading “Download, Print, & Color Birthday Coloring” in playful black and rainbow-colored text. Two black-and-white coloring pages are displayed. The left page is a “Birthday Countdown” with sections featuring balloons, a piñata, birthday banners, a cupcake, presents, candles spelling “HBD,” and a birthday cake. The right page features a large layered cake topped with ice cream cones, strawberries, and a rainbow, surrounded by hearts and stars. At the bottom left is a pack of rainbow-colored markers with three markers laying in front. The background is light teal with scattered heart and star doodles. The artwork is signed “SelfLoveRainbow” on the coloring pages.
August 10, 2025 at 8:30 PM