Selenelion Aberration
@selenated.bsky.social
he/they | 20s | plural, disabled, chronically ill
system stuff and random thoughts account, check out our projects over on @selenated.com
system stuff and random thoughts account, check out our projects over on @selenated.com
we believe in you!! ❤️
December 27, 2025 at 11:50 AM
we believe in you!! ❤️
oh and dw i did not pay for the book lmfaooooo
and i won't pay for the new book either. but i sure am gonna hate-read it just for shiggles. this is therapy for me, cuz it gives us a healthy outlet for anger and it lets us see how far we've gotten from days where we might've believed this crap X3
and i won't pay for the new book either. but i sure am gonna hate-read it just for shiggles. this is therapy for me, cuz it gives us a healthy outlet for anger and it lets us see how far we've gotten from days where we might've believed this crap X3
December 7, 2025 at 7:52 AM
oh and dw i did not pay for the book lmfaooooo
and i won't pay for the new book either. but i sure am gonna hate-read it just for shiggles. this is therapy for me, cuz it gives us a healthy outlet for anger and it lets us see how far we've gotten from days where we might've believed this crap X3
and i won't pay for the new book either. but i sure am gonna hate-read it just for shiggles. this is therapy for me, cuz it gives us a healthy outlet for anger and it lets us see how far we've gotten from days where we might've believed this crap X3
i'm liveblogging this hate-read in a friends server rn but i needed to breach containment for this one lol
sorry to inflict this on others but i need people to understand just how fucked up this kind of ideology is, esp since i learned that she RELEASED ANOTHER BOOK on NOV 25 of THIS YEAR!!!
sorry to inflict this on others but i need people to understand just how fucked up this kind of ideology is, esp since i learned that she RELEASED ANOTHER BOOK on NOV 25 of THIS YEAR!!!
December 7, 2025 at 7:50 AM
i'm liveblogging this hate-read in a friends server rn but i needed to breach containment for this one lol
sorry to inflict this on others but i need people to understand just how fucked up this kind of ideology is, esp since i learned that she RELEASED ANOTHER BOOK on NOV 25 of THIS YEAR!!!
sorry to inflict this on others but i need people to understand just how fucked up this kind of ideology is, esp since i learned that she RELEASED ANOTHER BOOK on NOV 25 of THIS YEAR!!!
"Remember, thoughts are the primary cause of everything"
i have no words frankly. no thoughts even. god bless. truly you are high on life and universe brained, ma'am
- Dusk
i have no words frankly. no thoughts even. god bless. truly you are high on life and universe brained, ma'am
- Dusk
December 7, 2025 at 7:49 AM
"Remember, thoughts are the primary cause of everything"
i have no words frankly. no thoughts even. god bless. truly you are high on life and universe brained, ma'am
- Dusk
i have no words frankly. no thoughts even. god bless. truly you are high on life and universe brained, ma'am
- Dusk
previously we were known by greysdawn or the Grey Skies, but we've recently changed our name to reflect a lot of changes in our life. feel free to still call us Grey, that's fine with us!
November 5, 2025 at 7:59 PM
previously we were known by greysdawn or the Grey Skies, but we've recently changed our name to reflect a lot of changes in our life. feel free to still call us Grey, that's fine with us!
we're cool with everyone as long as you're not hurting other people. and no, being endogenic, using contradictory labels (eg. he/him or bi lesbians), and not fitting into typical medical or societal molds for people isn't harming anyone. you're all awesome <3
November 5, 2025 at 7:58 PM
we're cool with everyone as long as you're not hurting other people. and no, being endogenic, using contradictory labels (eg. he/him or bi lesbians), and not fitting into typical medical or societal molds for people isn't harming anyone. you're all awesome <3
but uh, yeah, that's all for now methinks. see y'all in another month :3 //silly
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October 11, 2025 at 1:30 PM
but uh, yeah, that's all for now methinks. see y'all in another month :3 //silly
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hmm . many things to think about lol
we have a work in progress blog thing that i might redesign for what we want and put up on a vps when we get a chance, but who knows when we'll have the energy for that 😔✌️ it's okay though, it's not super important or anything honestly X3
we have a work in progress blog thing that i might redesign for what we want and put up on a vps when we get a chance, but who knows when we'll have the energy for that 😔✌️ it's okay though, it's not super important or anything honestly X3
October 11, 2025 at 1:30 PM
hmm . many things to think about lol
we have a work in progress blog thing that i might redesign for what we want and put up on a vps when we get a chance, but who knows when we'll have the energy for that 😔✌️ it's okay though, it's not super important or anything honestly X3
we have a work in progress blog thing that i might redesign for what we want and put up on a vps when we get a chance, but who knows when we'll have the energy for that 😔✌️ it's okay though, it's not super important or anything honestly X3
actually we've been really thinking about making a public blog of some kind again. not sure if it'd be on here, tumblr, or our personal website? but we want to like, start doing stuff in public again. not necessarily for attention or anything like that, moreso for... socialization? accountability?
October 11, 2025 at 1:30 PM
actually we've been really thinking about making a public blog of some kind again. not sure if it'd be on here, tumblr, or our personal website? but we want to like, start doing stuff in public again. not necessarily for attention or anything like that, moreso for... socialization? accountability?
and for those of you wondering about me, i'm a disabled artist & developer that's repeatedly failed to turn those things into a career. i know how hard it is when you couple your identity with your outcomes, and i'm currently doing the work to break that connection. you can too. i believe in you ❤️
October 11, 2025 at 1:14 PM
and for those of you wondering about me, i'm a disabled artist & developer that's repeatedly failed to turn those things into a career. i know how hard it is when you couple your identity with your outcomes, and i'm currently doing the work to break that connection. you can too. i believe in you ❤️
but just because it's hard doesn't mean it can't or shouldn't be done. you are worth the process to feel better because you exist. you deserve to have an identity that makes you feel happy and fulfilled because you are alive. it will take time, and it'll take energy, but it's worth it. i promise
October 11, 2025 at 1:14 PM
but just because it's hard doesn't mean it can't or shouldn't be done. you are worth the process to feel better because you exist. you deserve to have an identity that makes you feel happy and fulfilled because you are alive. it will take time, and it'll take energy, but it's worth it. i promise
and no, none of this is easy. it's HARD to do the work to decouple your outcomes from your identity. we live in a society that determines worth based on what you contribute, of COURSE it's going to be hard! people need therapy to do this a lot of the time even!
October 11, 2025 at 1:14 PM
and no, none of this is easy. it's HARD to do the work to decouple your outcomes from your identity. we live in a society that determines worth based on what you contribute, of COURSE it's going to be hard! people need therapy to do this a lot of the time even!
many people who become disabled after forming an identity around their work or hobbies struggle with this especially. being unable to do things as much as you used to- or being unable to do them at all- is frustrating and depressing. but still, we learn that we aren't our outcomes, but our actions
October 11, 2025 at 1:14 PM
many people who become disabled after forming an identity around their work or hobbies struggle with this especially. being unable to do things as much as you used to- or being unable to do them at all- is frustrating and depressing. but still, we learn that we aren't our outcomes, but our actions
(of course, this is all not accounting for inherent things like being queer/disabled/a person of color/etc. shhh we're not talking about that right now. this is about the parts of your identity that you forge yourself)
October 11, 2025 at 1:14 PM
(of course, this is all not accounting for inherent things like being queer/disabled/a person of color/etc. shhh we're not talking about that right now. this is about the parts of your identity that you forge yourself)
you are you because you DO, not because you meet some stranger's ideas of quality or productivity. your identity should be based on the things you can control: the specific actions you can take. if the outcomes of those actions aren't decided by you, then they shouldn't be involved in your identity
October 11, 2025 at 1:14 PM
you are you because you DO, not because you meet some stranger's ideas of quality or productivity. your identity should be based on the things you can control: the specific actions you can take. if the outcomes of those actions aren't decided by you, then they shouldn't be involved in your identity
you are a creator because you create. you are an artist because you make art. you are a writer because you write. it doesn't matter if these things meet some arbitrary idea of "good", it doesn't matter if these things sell or get likes or kudos or reposts. that's what's important
October 11, 2025 at 1:14 PM
you are a creator because you create. you are an artist because you make art. you are a writer because you write. it doesn't matter if these things meet some arbitrary idea of "good", it doesn't matter if these things sell or get likes or kudos or reposts. that's what's important
so many people in this thread really don't understand what's being said here 😭
base your identity on what you like to do. base your identity around your hobbies or crafts. but don't base them around the outcome- base it around the action of creating or doing. that's the point here
base your identity on what you like to do. base your identity around your hobbies or crafts. but don't base them around the outcome- base it around the action of creating or doing. that's the point here
October 11, 2025 at 1:14 PM
so many people in this thread really don't understand what's being said here 😭
base your identity on what you like to do. base your identity around your hobbies or crafts. but don't base them around the outcome- base it around the action of creating or doing. that's the point here
base your identity on what you like to do. base your identity around your hobbies or crafts. but don't base them around the outcome- base it around the action of creating or doing. that's the point here
that's all for now, just wanted to post something here since it's been a while
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September 17, 2025 at 12:18 PM
that's all for now, just wanted to post something here since it's been a while
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but yeah, things are a work in progress as always. currently dealing with the crushing weight of family/house drama, financial insecurity, ending a 5-year relationship (plus the trauma we experienced during the relationship), and our overall health & disabilities. we'll survive tho prolly <3
September 17, 2025 at 12:18 PM
but yeah, things are a work in progress as always. currently dealing with the crushing weight of family/house drama, financial insecurity, ending a 5-year relationship (plus the trauma we experienced during the relationship), and our overall health & disabilities. we'll survive tho prolly <3
we started to go heavily into hermit mode around the time we had someone use a public mental health breakdown against us, and i really want to undo that damage. if people try to use our struggles against us again, then oh well. frankly i think it says more about them than it does us lmao
September 17, 2025 at 12:18 PM
we started to go heavily into hermit mode around the time we had someone use a public mental health breakdown against us, and i really want to undo that damage. if people try to use our struggles against us again, then oh well. frankly i think it says more about them than it does us lmao
gonna try dropping the professionalism/"i can't talk about our health" mask on this account. might mean we vent more often, not really sure yet. honestly though, we just miss being more open about our life and situation without letting it stress us out to hell and back
September 17, 2025 at 12:18 PM
gonna try dropping the professionalism/"i can't talk about our health" mask on this account. might mean we vent more often, not really sure yet. honestly though, we just miss being more open about our life and situation without letting it stress us out to hell and back
it's uh... man. things are hard tbh. still don't really know what we're gonna do on the financial front, cuz we're not really in any shape to work right now and for whatever reason commissions are making us feel worse. i'm sure it's just The Stress but it's still tough to figure out 😭
September 17, 2025 at 12:18 PM
it's uh... man. things are hard tbh. still don't really know what we're gonna do on the financial front, cuz we're not really in any shape to work right now and for whatever reason commissions are making us feel worse. i'm sure it's just The Stress but it's still tough to figure out 😭