i dont give a fuck what you look like, im not trying to say being slightly overweight is a problem, do not misinterpret this. its just the terminology and its detriment to fighting actualy systematic oppression and bigotry and ESPECIALLY misogyny really makes me mad. maybe im just not woke enough

-like whenever i see "fatphobia" anywhere and its really fucking common on this website it just fills me with rage because its so ineffective and detrimental to actual activism that needs to be done in society. i know this is ranty but like come on guys... its just fucking dumb man...

-then theres the other side of it where people will try to say not finding overweight people attracitve is fatphobic... like people have taste dawg, im not denying that can be dumb at times, but thats all the more reason to just find someone else... not act like fat ppl are systematically oppressed-

-I as a trans person with an eating disorder fully understand how harsh female beauty standards are. but it's because of misogyny not anything else. by calling it fatphobia you LITERALLY are just making people who hold progressive views look like morons. get your heads out of your asses.-

Btw this is all for to help me process things.

Worth a bit of worse, so long as there is chance of better.

Will get better, will be okay, even if takes months, years.

Acknowledge hurt will still exist but pain is temporary in nature

We love eachother more than anything and anyone and we both want that love to keep existing for as long as possible. Solve issues all the way. Despite everything we still do.