Shellgirl
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Shellgirl
@seabizquit.bsky.social
Must have regular Ocean/Nature/Science/Photo/Art/Politics/History/Trivia fixes
The OP hasn't finished baking her "selfness" into a human yet so this dude is too overdone for her.
In fact he is a bit "broken"
Dump him, sister and look for someone who is at least only a bit broken - them you can sometimes fix with care.
November 22, 2025 at 12:16 PM
Thank you for this image/post so much!
I volunteer mentor 17yo Aussie girls for their driving hours - 120 hours needed before the test- & in those 120 hours we cover a lot of kms & a lot of topics.
This is an excellent addition to my arsenal in the fight for these young women's future happy lives.
November 21, 2025 at 12:04 PM
A section of a busy inner Melbourne arterial (Brunswick Rd Fitzroy) has new 30kph speed limit I noticed when visiting this week. Lots of cycle traffic. Even saw a parent with a small child in a basket chair on the front of a reverse trike - child was very relaxed & happy
Felt safer
Way to go!!
November 18, 2025 at 5:19 AM
Excellent - I just love this
Soooo true
November 18, 2025 at 4:54 AM
Just love this analogy!! Well done!!
November 17, 2025 at 12:37 PM
Thank you, that makes sense
My Dad worked in a dairy factory in world famous dairy area
so lots of cream, milk & cheese.
In the 1930's, Australia had a rabbit plague, saving many Aussies & instead of PB&J, Vegemite (nutritious black paste from beer brewing waste) Aussie only addiction/invention
November 17, 2025 at 12:26 PM
I'm sorry if this sounds rude but
What's with you Yanks & mac n cheese? I mean, WHY?
It always seems to be spoken of as if it's the height of haute cuisine
In Australia, before Italians, we ate spaghetti with tomato sauce/ketchup sans cheese, but we discovered sauces & haven't looked back
Catch up?
November 16, 2025 at 12:24 PM
When I was 20 I was in a relationship with a bloke who had been a mate
Then we realized it was only lust/sex so we stopped
Went back to being friends
Unfortunately this is a rare resolution
But sex Only relationships seem to be getting even more common than when I was young
Dump em all !
November 13, 2025 at 12:01 PM
Love Andie MacDowell, she looks fantastic & real (No mar a largo look)
But is this a still from an RKO horror movie? If it is I'm watching it. She is one scary woman
I fantasize that I had that look during my career as a secondary teacher - no need for detention with that expression lookin' at you
November 8, 2025 at 12:20 PM
Sister, your life will be so much nice when all this cr*p stops.

Just listen to the old Gloria Gaynor song "I will survive"
YOU will survive
But only if you lighten your load, sister, and dump him
November 6, 2025 at 12:07 PM
This bloke is obviously unqualified to have "bigusdickus" syndrome and just blames women bc he can't compete even in his own little mind with the "real world of MEN!"
November 6, 2025 at 12:02 PM
Not only does the father determine the sex of a baby, but being in a stressful "Manly" job like deep sea diver, racing driver, elite sportsman or soldier damages the more fragile Y bearing sperm so that Blokey blokes are much more likely to have a "quiver full of girls " as the old saying goes.
November 6, 2025 at 11:56 AM
If someone had shown me (16yo) a baby I would have thought "Eeewwww!"
Except for mine (30's),I still don't like babies, but at least now I can fake it better.
Why are we expected to actually "love all babies"?
't'aint natural.
My mares hens ewes all loved THEIR babies but would maim other mum's
November 6, 2025 at 11:41 AM
What is it with blokes and women's bodily fluids? - either they want to everything very wet/dry but never period blood
They expect us to be totally accepting of their bodily discharges (spit, sweat and semen)
& then if 1 hole is too ick well just use another.
Lose his contacts sister
Run girl run
October 29, 2025 at 11:05 AM
Just four little words to the OP
Run Girl Run NOW!!!
October 27, 2025 at 11:53 AM
This is both profound and extremely sad but also makes total sense about why the USA is why they are where they are now - and falling ever faster.
October 27, 2025 at 4:08 AM
I don't understand how blokes don't see having women as friends can have great real benefits (not just a quick knee trembler)
Most women
- have women friends
-like to look after their friends
-often matchmake their friends
- have friends who might see HIM as a possibility
So typical loser bloke
October 25, 2025 at 11:54 AM
This OP is very young and needs to get rid of her BF ASAP as he will only continue to go down the toxic rabbit hole.
She needs to dump him before she gets stuck with him and has trouble getting away.
Lighten your load sister and dump him but keep the sister as your friend.
October 25, 2025 at 11:40 AM
Well that's just as rare as rooster's teeth.
Stop being scared and look at what your religion is SUPOSED to be about.
Looking after EVERYONE - black white brindle male female and everything inbetween.
October 23, 2025 at 12:03 PM
either fully male and fully female.
It is weird how "feminism" is seen as something worse than even communism/blasphemy
Sexuality in the real world (non-human) is very fluid - some fish for example start male them become female and then male again
And as for Men/Mr God being in charge always -
October 23, 2025 at 12:03 PM
Its just sad how men esp God-botherers think the entire world revolves around them & all good things are totally male & all weak/bad things are female
In reality the "complete male" is such a rarity in the natural world that the rest of us are much more bi-gender/sexual/behavioural etc. than
October 23, 2025 at 12:03 PM
Why?
Can't you find comfy undies?
Surely the seams of your clothing are more uncomfy?
October 23, 2025 at 11:49 AM