We've all got double standards about certain things, but at least own it.

Oh, come the fuck on. Use it to describe a stranger at a munch and see how far you get. Might as well argue you're describing yourself as a transmission.

You want to reclaim a word that has been used for decadesas a slur. And that's fine! But people self-describing have faggots have the same right.

... you literally have the word 'tranny' in your bio.

I almost miss the Camis! It was like having my own personal clone army.

A sub of mine is big into hypnosis and memory play. I once wrote a story that (s)he loved, and told me how much she'd like to try out something similar with me when I got the chance.

(S)he didn't remember that we'd already done it -- TWICE -- and I'd just made her forget it.

And she never will.

This post was specifically inspired by @poppycarmine.bsky.social, which... I mean, just say it out loud. Just say it! Is that not the most wonderful nom de kink?

And you can't go ten posts on your feed here without seeing three just like it. Good names are a special pleasure.

DANG, Mistress.

God only knows how subs must feel looking at that.

You grew them yourself, you should be proud!

I've been self-employed ever since I left university, first as an editor then as a writer.

I have no fucking idea how office jobs work, and whenever they come up in my writing I feel like Vincent Adultman.