GreenSpeckSare
@sarahbethj.bsky.social
Grumpy, perimenopausal, social worker. Do not engage. 🤭
So this is 45! I’m saggy af but healthier than I’ve ever been. I’ve lost over 100lbs on this journey so I finally feel like I’m in the body I should have had 20’years ago lol.
December 12, 2025 at 6:30 PM
So this is 45! I’m saggy af but healthier than I’ve ever been. I’ve lost over 100lbs on this journey so I finally feel like I’m in the body I should have had 20’years ago lol.
Cue ended vacation depression.
December 11, 2025 at 4:58 PM
Cue ended vacation depression.
I’m still sitting on the balcony, people watching this time. It just gets prettier and prettier as the day goes on. 30 minutes from being picked up by my first Uber to take me to my appt at Black Palette Tattoo. I’m anxious and excited and pumped!!!!!
December 9, 2025 at 7:18 PM
I’m still sitting on the balcony, people watching this time. It just gets prettier and prettier as the day goes on. 30 minutes from being picked up by my first Uber to take me to my appt at Black Palette Tattoo. I’m anxious and excited and pumped!!!!!
Final night in Oahu and I’m sitting on the balcony of the Twin Fin. My 45th birthday is in 14 minutes and I’ve never felt more alive. I hope I get the opportunity to feel it again. Thank you HI. Thank you Oahu. Thank you Honolulu. Thank you Waikīkī. 🌺🏝️🌈🤙
December 9, 2025 at 9:46 AM
Final night in Oahu and I’m sitting on the balcony of the Twin Fin. My 45th birthday is in 14 minutes and I’ve never felt more alive. I hope I get the opportunity to feel it again. Thank you HI. Thank you Oahu. Thank you Honolulu. Thank you Waikīkī. 🌺🏝️🌈🤙
I’m in Waikiki for the first and probably only time in my life. I FaceTimed my husband to show him the beautiful view from the room and he just tells me I have bags under my eyes and I look tired. Thanks. 👍👍
December 5, 2025 at 5:03 AM
I’m in Waikiki for the first and probably only time in my life. I FaceTimed my husband to show him the beautiful view from the room and he just tells me I have bags under my eyes and I look tired. Thanks. 👍👍
Not much else to say. We report to the high school at 11:30 and head to Columbus for the flight to Houston!
December 4, 2025 at 3:28 AM
Not much else to say. We report to the high school at 11:30 and head to Columbus for the flight to Houston!
I can’t access my rational brain when I’m exposed to my mother so having her cancel going to Hawaii with us has caused my hands to stop sweating. My body is relieved even if I can’t say it out loud.
December 3, 2025 at 3:35 PM
I can’t access my rational brain when I’m exposed to my mother so having her cancel going to Hawaii with us has caused my hands to stop sweating. My body is relieved even if I can’t say it out loud.
I’m so friggin excited
December 3, 2025 at 4:14 AM
I’m so friggin excited
I leave for Hawaii in 1 day and 21 hours. I think I’m going to document the trip here so I can remember and not feel the judgey pressure from the book of faces lol
December 2, 2025 at 1:48 PM
I leave for Hawaii in 1 day and 21 hours. I think I’m going to document the trip here so I can remember and not feel the judgey pressure from the book of faces lol
Did yall see that Elon is going to be our first trillionaire? Shew. All’s right in the world. Illegals are being hauled out. Poor people are poorer. *insert maniacal psychopath laugh* Total sarcasm. But somewhere, certain groups are happy as clams. That’s gross.
November 8, 2025 at 2:54 AM
Did yall see that Elon is going to be our first trillionaire? Shew. All’s right in the world. Illegals are being hauled out. Poor people are poorer. *insert maniacal psychopath laugh* Total sarcasm. But somewhere, certain groups are happy as clams. That’s gross.
Has anyone checked in on Kamala today? I feel like if I woke up thinking about how much better today feels than the wake up we had a year ago, it can’t be just me. It would be a stark reminder of which voices we SHOULD have heard last year.
November 5, 2025 at 2:31 PM
Has anyone checked in on Kamala today? I feel like if I woke up thinking about how much better today feels than the wake up we had a year ago, it can’t be just me. It would be a stark reminder of which voices we SHOULD have heard last year.
I wonder when. My husband will be home. Says the wife to whom he didn’t bother to say goodbye, or see ya, or love you, or kiss my ass, nothing. I thought he was home working but nope. Poof. Weird kind of disrespect.
August 23, 2025 at 3:20 AM
I wonder when. My husband will be home. Says the wife to whom he didn’t bother to say goodbye, or see ya, or love you, or kiss my ass, nothing. I thought he was home working but nope. Poof. Weird kind of disrespect.
Sometimes I don’t know why I’m married to someone who can’t show the smallest amount of respect for me. Who leaves for a 4 hour trip with a goodbye? Certainly not me. That’s cool.
August 20, 2025 at 1:40 PM
Sometimes I don’t know why I’m married to someone who can’t show the smallest amount of respect for me. Who leaves for a 4 hour trip with a goodbye? Certainly not me. That’s cool.
My kid moved to school so I’m having a pity pool party. Complete with bologna and cheese sandwiches and red Doritos. And tears. I keep thinking he’s going to pop out of his room any minute.
August 17, 2025 at 6:42 PM
My kid moved to school so I’m having a pity pool party. Complete with bologna and cheese sandwiches and red Doritos. And tears. I keep thinking he’s going to pop out of his room any minute.
Confession. I’m terrified to be home without my son. I’ll have to face my marriage and I really don’t want to.
August 5, 2025 at 1:40 AM
Confession. I’m terrified to be home without my son. I’ll have to face my marriage and I really don’t want to.
I am really struggling with my only child going off to college in 7 days. He’s been my purpose for the last 18 years. Not that I won’t continue to be his biggest fan, it will just be different switching from parenting to guidance in a way. Anyway. What do I do now??
August 1, 2025 at 3:32 AM
I am really struggling with my only child going off to college in 7 days. He’s been my purpose for the last 18 years. Not that I won’t continue to be his biggest fan, it will just be different switching from parenting to guidance in a way. Anyway. What do I do now??
Not feeling worth the energy I require today. Sigh.
July 22, 2025 at 3:10 PM
Not feeling worth the energy I require today. Sigh.
Intrusive thoughts are winning today. Send help. Do NOT wrap this vehicle around a tree.
July 22, 2025 at 2:15 PM
Intrusive thoughts are winning today. Send help. Do NOT wrap this vehicle around a tree.
Confession. I am a DCI wannabe groupie.
July 18, 2025 at 12:14 AM
Confession. I am a DCI wannabe groupie.
It’s exhausting living in perpetual disappointment.
July 16, 2025 at 11:07 AM
It’s exhausting living in perpetual disappointment.
I’m in a social work struggle. I don’t feel like I’m doing any good. The problems our system has now are the same ones we had when I started my career in 2003. Plus some new ones. Every time I dive into these cases I become more sad and angry. It’s effecting every thing. I’m just sad.
July 10, 2025 at 2:37 AM
I’m in a social work struggle. I don’t feel like I’m doing any good. The problems our system has now are the same ones we had when I started my career in 2003. Plus some new ones. Every time I dive into these cases I become more sad and angry. It’s effecting every thing. I’m just sad.
I feel like I called this last week in conversation with the bff. I said it would happen this weekend. I was born in 80. Have I ever not existed in a war-free period??
June 22, 2025 at 4:52 PM
I feel like I called this last week in conversation with the bff. I said it would happen this weekend. I was born in 80. Have I ever not existed in a war-free period??
The rapture needs to go on a rapture already cuz these folks are nutso.
June 22, 2025 at 4:11 PM
The rapture needs to go on a rapture already cuz these folks are nutso.