Sara by the Sea
@sarabythesea.bsky.social
"She's not dying, she's just having an existential crisis"
Parenting pro tip: when your young child is upset, telling them to "calm down" does not, in fact, help them calm down.
July 31, 2025 at 4:58 PM
Parenting pro tip: when your young child is upset, telling them to "calm down" does not, in fact, help them calm down.
I'll never understand parents who emotionally abuse their child because the child doesn't perform well while playing a sport.
July 26, 2025 at 2:54 PM
I'll never understand parents who emotionally abuse their child because the child doesn't perform well while playing a sport.
I'm never enough
March 28, 2025 at 6:44 AM
I'm never enough
Band name from yesterday: Teeth Farmer
January 27, 2025 at 3:45 PM
Band name from yesterday: Teeth Farmer
A few band names from January 2022: Tangerine Tangent, The Bread Shredders, The Brain Crackers, and, one of my all-time favorites, that makes me want to be in an actual band, Behind the Eucalyptus.
January 21, 2025 at 7:47 PM
A few band names from January 2022: Tangerine Tangent, The Bread Shredders, The Brain Crackers, and, one of my all-time favorites, that makes me want to be in an actual band, Behind the Eucalyptus.
I wish I knew how to fix myself. I wish I knew how to keep friends. I wish I knew how to not be an awkward weirdo. I wish it didn't hurt so much to see the people I thought were my friends hanging out with each other after having intentionally excluded me. /2
December 27, 2024 at 2:47 AM
I wish I knew how to fix myself. I wish I knew how to keep friends. I wish I knew how to not be an awkward weirdo. I wish it didn't hurt so much to see the people I thought were my friends hanging out with each other after having intentionally excluded me. /2
Occasionally I think about the people I've called "friend" in my life. Then I think about how every single one of them has ghosted/dumped me. I have ADHD & have a hard time connecting with people. I know I don't have any friends because I'm fundamentally broken. Sometimes it really hurts. /1
December 27, 2024 at 2:44 AM
Occasionally I think about the people I've called "friend" in my life. Then I think about how every single one of them has ghosted/dumped me. I have ADHD & have a hard time connecting with people. I know I don't have any friends because I'm fundamentally broken. Sometimes it really hurts. /1
Band name #10: Post-Coital Kit Kat. January 10, 2022.
December 10, 2024 at 4:40 PM
Band name #10: Post-Coital Kit Kat. January 10, 2022.
Band name #9: Squeaky Joints, created on January 8, 2022.
December 10, 2024 at 5:01 AM
Band name #9: Squeaky Joints, created on January 8, 2022.
One of the things I hate most about having ADHD is never being able to maintain friendships. Knowing I'm being intentionally excluded, and knowing something is super wrong with me and that's why no one wants to be my friend, but not knowing what that thing is or how to fix it.
December 10, 2024 at 4:58 AM
One of the things I hate most about having ADHD is never being able to maintain friendships. Knowing I'm being intentionally excluded, and knowing something is super wrong with me and that's why no one wants to be my friend, but not knowing what that thing is or how to fix it.
New band name: Constructing Winston
November 28, 2024 at 7:00 PM
New band name: Constructing Winston
Happy Thanksgiving! New band name: Perfectly Exploded Showpiece.
November 28, 2024 at 3:43 PM
Happy Thanksgiving! New band name: Perfectly Exploded Showpiece.
Band names #7 and #8: The Brains and the Bod; K!ll the Cute. January 7, 2022.
November 24, 2024 at 5:15 AM
Band names #7 and #8: The Brains and the Bod; K!ll the Cute. January 7, 2022.
So far I have mostly followed accounts about cats, and one about the moon, and then like, one person I know IRL.
November 22, 2024 at 10:34 PM
So far I have mostly followed accounts about cats, and one about the moon, and then like, one person I know IRL.
Band Names #5 and #6: Colby Jack and the Cheese Blend; Silky String. December 19, 2021.
November 22, 2024 at 1:23 PM
Band Names #5 and #6: Colby Jack and the Cheese Blend; Silky String. December 19, 2021.
Ok, hear me out - what if Rob Zombie did a cover of Shout by Tears for Fears
November 22, 2024 at 6:39 AM
Ok, hear me out - what if Rob Zombie did a cover of Shout by Tears for Fears
And now he sings "Young Man" by Neil Old
November 22, 2024 at 6:20 AM
And now he sings "Young Man" by Neil Old
It's like pokem harem all over again
November 22, 2024 at 6:17 AM
It's like pokem harem all over again
Brand new band name, just dropped tonight: Gentle Force
November 22, 2024 at 5:32 AM
Brand new band name, just dropped tonight: Gentle Force
WTH, band name #4: Part Time Girlfriend. December 16, 2021.
November 21, 2024 at 7:29 PM
WTH, band name #4: Part Time Girlfriend. December 16, 2021.
Band Name #3: Too Much Wobble on the Mechanical Monkey. November 30, 2021.
November 21, 2024 at 7:28 PM
Band Name #3: Too Much Wobble on the Mechanical Monkey. November 30, 2021.
Band name #2: Roasted Rat and the Spear Fear. August 27, 2021.
November 20, 2024 at 1:22 PM
Band name #2: Roasted Rat and the Spear Fear. August 27, 2021.
Band name #1: Dangling Appendages. Created on August 6, 2021.
November 20, 2024 at 12:51 AM
Band name #1: Dangling Appendages. Created on August 6, 2021.
Don't get too excited about my posts here. I will very likely post several things fairly frequently for several days, or even weeks. Then my ADHD brain will forget this exists and I won't post again for 5 years.
November 19, 2024 at 5:30 AM
Don't get too excited about my posts here. I will very likely post several things fairly frequently for several days, or even weeks. Then my ADHD brain will forget this exists and I won't post again for 5 years.
My boyfriend and I have an ongoing list of band names. I've had no outlet for them, so I'm thinking about posting them here. Maybe once a day or something.
November 18, 2024 at 11:41 PM
My boyfriend and I have an ongoing list of band names. I've had no outlet for them, so I'm thinking about posting them here. Maybe once a day or something.