i think i found the setting, thanks :

(and i'm glad you guys came out of all that with newer better genders and [afaict] happier lives)

nice, I do miss pre-purge tumblr's vibe of like... casually posting about sex like any other topic in life, it felt very wholesome and integrated

though shamefully this does make me lean towards anonymous handle rather than irlname

also your hair is very pretty

pretty!! <3

(it makes sense if you can't answer that for me, probably i just have to look around and decide for myself)

I guess I mean, do I want the cozy casual anonymity of tumblr or do I want to use my real name to help people find me?