Sam and Kate
samandkate.bsky.social
Sam and Kate
@samandkate.bsky.social
Loving and happily married ENM / Poly / Cuckold / Hotwife / Whatever couple. Check out our blog www.samnkate.com
Here’s a little bit of a deeper dive into the hows and why’s of cuckolding in our relationship. How does yours look and work?

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Why Cuckolding?
What’s The Appeal For Me / Us? Why Cuckolding? What’s the appeal? Kate and I were driving home from a nice night out on the town last weekend, decidedly vanilla affair, no one was naked at any poin…
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November 29, 2025 at 12:42 AM
November 15, 2025 at 9:49 AM
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Keep in mind that EVERYTHING he says or does going forward is to distract from the EPSTEIN files.

E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G.
August 16, 2025 at 5:37 PM
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Wholesale inflation up .9%.

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Strikes out with make-believe peace meeting.

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$60 million taxpayer money on golf outings.

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August 16, 2025 at 11:58 AM
Pete is on point here. We all need to be screaming Epstein at the top of our voices.
August 12, 2025 at 7:45 AM
Anyone else seeing stuff like this out there? Any other signs indicating that how guys interact in real life is changing?

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What’s Going On With Guys??
It’s Getting Weird Out There I love the view I have right now. It’s 8:44 Monday evening. Clifford’s head and snout (Kate and I both agree she has my nose) are laying on the arm of the couch, …
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August 3, 2025 at 7:20 PM
I suppose it’s different for everyone, I mean on the surface it’s pretty clear what Kate gets. It’s more subtle for me, tho no less fulfilling.

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What I Get Out Of Our (mostly) One Way Open Marriage
Spoiler Alert: Exactly What I Need About a half hour ago, Kate returned from spending the night with Chris. As always, Clifford The Wonder Dog and myself were out in the driveway when she pulled in…
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July 25, 2025 at 11:31 PM
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Have you ever been to an IR party? What’s been your experience?

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Pattern Recognition
Kate + An Interracial Party = Gangbang If there’s a rhyme or reason to the ebbs and flows of our sexual energy / adventures, I missed that memo. It’s Tuesday night as I sit starting to write this p…
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July 10, 2025 at 1:08 PM
Ya see soooooo many cucks get sooooo wrapped up in the lifestyle, ya wonder if they loose themselves. What happens when the inevitable happens and it’s over?

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What’s Your Exit Strategy?
Can You Swing Forever? The day will come when Kate and I hang up our various lifestyle / ENM / swinger / cuckolding spurs. Neither of us are planning on that ending any time soon. Sure, we’re evolv…
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June 27, 2025 at 9:19 AM
We’re at a nudist resort that’s reaaaaaaly as much a swinger place as anything this weekend. Great energy, and the zero fucks given nudist vibe.

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LIVE!!! From Sunny Rest
Sam & Kate Visit The Pocono’s Nudist Resort There’s something that’s really peaceful about being the first / only one up in the morning. All the better when it’s away from home. At a nudist res…
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June 7, 2025 at 6:56 PM
Is it really the middle of May? Is sundress season really upon us??? I hope so!!!

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Living The Hotwife Life
It’s Who We Are Here’s breaking news or perhaps a plot twist for some folks: women, maybe not all, but a damn good percentage of them, have a sexual capacity and appetite that puts men to shame. Do…
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May 15, 2025 at 9:47 PM
If you know; you know.

Pretty on the nose meme.
May 14, 2025 at 4:55 PM
How about it, what’s the state of rules in your relationship (s)? Have they evolved? Have they worked for you? Inquiring mi da want to know!!!

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Ya Can’t Use Rules To Legislate Away Feelings
Yeah, That’s Not Gonna Work. Fellow Reddit’er subsoccerplayer dropped the gem that I’ve used as the title of this post in a thread in the Cuckold Psychology sub recently. It’s a rule of thumb in th…
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May 8, 2025 at 9:40 PM
Knowing what not to do can be a pretty potent guide.

Happy Friday!!!

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What Not To Do
A Few Cardinal Errors In The ENM World Waaaaay back in dare I say it, 1986, young PV2 Sam arrived at his first duty station after finishing initial training in the Army. Ft. Hood Texas was and stil…
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May 2, 2025 at 11:52 AM
Soooo many Reddit posts about rules and cheating. Take a breath and try to see if there’s opportunity for growth in the chaos.

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Progress, Not Perfection
Does Cheating And Rule Breaking Have To Be The End? Name one thing you’ve done perfectly, every minute of every day since you’ve been alive……I’ll wait. To get things started, I’ll go first…………………………
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April 25, 2025 at 2:27 PM
A nice conversation I had this week with Michael C from @keysandanklets.bsky.social dovetailed perfectly with what Kate and I were writing about. Great to jabber jaw with him a bit!!!

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Cuckolding / ENM / Swinging Is The Secret To Life
Well, One Of The Secrets Anyway English has got to be a clusterfuck of a language to learn later in life. How in the hell do you drive on parkways and park in driveways?? Jumbo Shrimp? Military Int…
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April 17, 2025 at 10:11 PM
April 17, 2025 at 11:46 AM
Back to it after a great visit with family out west. Time marches on, nothing ya can do about it, may as well enjoy the ride!!

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Getting Old Doesn’t Have To Suck
Make The Rest Of Your Life The Best Of Your Life Kate and I have been one day at time / in the moment people for a long time now; more than a decade. This is a great way to live, so long as you und…
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April 11, 2025 at 9:50 PM
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True story.

#Nonfiction
April 4, 2025 at 2:35 AM
I’m tired and don’t have a catchy into for this, so here’s this weeks post.

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You’re Not Owed Sex
A Common ENM / Swinging / Cuckolding / Poly Problem There’s a guy in our local recovery / sober circle who Kate and I have known since we each walked thru the doors of our fellowship for the f…
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