you can put a little coconut oil and some coarse sea salt in there and wipe it around with a paper towel baby! rinse it off heat it up to get rid of any water it's easy! why is there 1/4 inch of weird grease just sitting on your stove i'm gonna kms!!

did this on accident once, wasn't really thinking, thought i had tucked wrong but no

looks like my wife... cozy

my big sister and i read it to each other as we played and really dug into which traumas we related to for each of them, it was such a lovely experience. i enjoy pain a lot more but she had to take breaks to cry. that gentleness after their first fight stirs something strong in me, idk what yet

i must be coconut crabs the way her tits remind me of amelia earheart's corpse

it just works for our brain. Communal effort towards betterment. Also, thanks for accidentally teaching us how to queue up posts in a row, this is so much better than 300 character count! Probably still refrain from double spacing (ooooh we want to) but this is so helpful omg. /4 end

how each of us was made, we think. Such different stories, all from different places, always in ways we don't expect. Trying to figure out what links us when it already feels like its own origin is too hard. For now we say that the closest things we have to roles is being pieces of a village, /3

you have as members of a system, we totally agree! We see a lot of systems harming their own members because they reject the idea at its core even if they want to accept it. As for the running string between us... who knows (but us! and we don't either lol). We'll name it once we understand /2

Yeah! Okay. We didn't quite glean that from the thread. We haven't figured out what to *call* our intrinsic ties, the singletsona doesn't feel like a person (mild fear of introjecting it), and just saying we share a body fails to capture the story. It is important to acknowledge the connection /1

It used to be 🪸 had a lot of anger but now we all do, about different things, and he's found such joy in acting that ✨ can only watch and delight in. ⚜️ has a different sense of humor. Being different people has been crucial to our journey, and we think it's okay if yours and our journey differ.

We gain more from trying to work together as distinct people than we do trying to be one person. It's helped us understand how to interact with other people as well? Maybe it'll change someday. For now, this is what we need. We all also experience our own versions of emotions. (cont 1 more)

I think it's more what the system needs than any umbrella goal. Fusion is great for some! The system that taught us about DID - and has written several books on it - finally fused recently. We have a different view, our sense of harmony is already there, connection to all of the world. (cont)

B, funnier

a smaller update, it's almost amusing ✨ went to all this effort to really try and express how we felt about our brother, and so quickly it all just... felt better. he's just a guy we know. only the occasional urge, no romantic inclination.
still something to work on in therapy, but... relieving.

i kind of like being a brother. i've even felt comfortable for the first time really considering what a long term family would be like - ✨ really wants to have kids someday, and today i didn't feel repulsed asking myself if i'd be a dad, uncle, parent, something else. that's progress.