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Alpha · 2h If you had to be a fantasy d&d style class, what would you pick? You're much more sci-fi typically so I'm curious where you'd go in fantasy Believe it or not i have played a decent number of fantasy D&D sessions. And I've gravitated towards the 'highly specialized bruisers' demographic, which means monks and sorcerers. Crucially though, I'd be a class that lets me be a very specific type of dumbass. My sorcerer was a stuck up half-elf who would waste a spellslot every day turning their freckles into star shapes. My monk was an orc whose 'flurry of blows' was making his hand into a shape of a serpent and striking people with it. So definitely some idiot shit like that. Kinda surprised I never took on making a Bard character cuz that seems custom made for Antics, but also that might've been because every bard I ever encountered personally or second-hand is played by the most annoying person on the planet. (And if you think I'm talking about you don't worry: I am.)
December 19, 2025 at 2:12 AM
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Anonymous Coward · 1h How many eggs do you think you could fit in your mouth in one go No fetish mining. (Three)
November 7, 2025 at 9:37 PM
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@BigIronJuliette Juliette · 28m Okay, outside of media that you Watch or Play, [so stuff like literature, traditional art, music] what's something you consider deeply influential to you as a person, your art, et cetera. I definitely think a lot of modern/abstract art has had an influence on me. Admittedely I was really snobbish about it while i was in highschool, but as i got older i realized that hey, making art that most people might hate is actually essential. It’s where a lot of my attitude towards my own art came from. When you make something just for yourself, and not for mass consumption, you are at your most honest. This can be true for paintings, videos, vent art scribbles, or gluing together things into abstract sculptures Seeing things like Roy Lichtenstein making comic panels into giant paintings or Keith Haring using bright colors and bold lines were examples of them doing what they wanted. Or its Piet Mondrian making paintings of abstract squares and shapes barely resembling anything in real life. Or Andy Warhol’s Screen Tests, where he shot hours of video of his friends and colleauges sitting like they were having their photos taken. Things like that motivated me. That’s where my attitude of “make art because you want it to exist” came from. Because if you need a practical “reason” for you to make it, then you’ll compromise your vision, and won’t reach your full potential.
November 7, 2025 at 5:38 PM
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Anonymous Coward · 7d favorite snack food, GO honestly, love me some chips. especially a really good tortillia chips and salsa or guac. Or a sour cream and onion potato chip. Also pretzel nuggets rule even if i have to be sure i have a drink. if i want somethin’ sweet i do like a really good crunchy chocolate chip cookie. thin, crispy ones. chewy ones are only okay if theyre warm from the oven
October 11, 2025 at 1:37 AM
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Anonymous Coward · 12m gives you a small kiss on the forehead aw, only one?
October 11, 2025 at 1:35 AM
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Anonymous Coward · 7h Sorry for keeping this anonymous cause I'm a COWARD but I've accidentally pissed you off so many times that I try go out of my way to avoid you so I won't accidentally piss you off. I think your everything is really cool and a big inspiration to the kinda streaming I'd wanna do, but I just can't really interact anything you do cause I don't want you piss you off more than I already have. Bro, get over yourself. Like for real. If you really did look up to me you would know that I wouldn't put up with some sniveling shit like this. If you really looked up to me you wouldn't do the shit that would piss me off. I have no idea who you even are. Like if someone asked me to guess I wouldn't fuckin' know. That should tell you how important impressing me is; which apparently is what you think you need to do. Sometimes people just don't get along. That's fucking fine. I don't have to be friends with everyone, just like you don't have to be friends with me. I'm sure you have plenty of other people who like you. Maybe we're just oil and water! I've met plenty of people like that! And you know what? We just went our separate ways, and we were both better off for it. Nobody felt like their life was over because we couldn't get along. And if you don't have other people who like you? Think about what the common denominator is. Look inward. Change your behavior. If you really did look up to me, you'd know I would look at you and tell you to stop being a pussy.
September 21, 2025 at 4:47 AM
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@Pecansan Pecan · 6 answers · 1mo Pervert working on it, honestly not to take your joke ask and turn it into A Thing but I've been so apprehensive about sex (and still am, if i'm being real) that i'm trying to like, figure out what i'm comfortable with doing and sharing. it's a little embarassing but i appreciate it when people are patient with me about it
September 12, 2025 at 3:37 PM
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Anonymous Coward · 16d 🫵🛰️💥🤭 hey bud, the in-character revospring is over there. don't bother here unless we're gonna talk about fat girls or like how sad I am or whatever.
September 12, 2025 at 3:32 PM
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Juliette · 36m Favorite old ass movie? I'm talking like. Nothing from after the 80's at the latest With that criteria, it's Death Race 2000 (1975), in a walk. People know that as the Ashely Movie Of All Time. It's campy b-movie bullshit, it's racing, it's gory, and one of those "it's a fucking miracle that this movie got made with the shoestring budget we had" movies. Fundamental movie for me that I loved even more watching again as an adult, because now it's beyond "wow, cool murder car" and more "wow, actually yeah this movie has a lot to say about hero worship and patriotism and how both are utter bullshit." Honorable mention goes to The Shout (1978) which was recommended by Martin Conditionbleen. Just a really weird and bizarre movie that absolutely makes good on the promise of the title.
July 18, 2025 at 4:26 AM
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Anonymous Coward · 4m You don't get to see who this is but please know that yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute yall are so cute I die thanks, we are and we're only gonna get cuter
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Phoenix · 22m do horns count as a foreign object or do they let you use kacey to gore your opponent If bianca belair can use her braid on her opponents, kacey's allowed to gore opponents. We're going to win every first blood match easy style
June 7, 2025 at 4:03 AM
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Alpha · 38m What's your favorite game to play with the girlfriend? It's changed a few times. Lately I've really REALLY enjoyed playing minecraft together. There's a lot to that, because it's a server that we worked together to set up. I handled the actual serverside installation (which involved using FTP and installing stuff via a linux command line) and she handled picking out and organizing the mods we were gonna use. It was a team project that was a lot of fun to troubleshoot and fix up together, and the fact that it was something we did together meant a lot to me. Then when we switched from a Fabric server to a Neoforge server, it became a whole new project that we were better at. Plus, when we were playing our strengths/weaknesses/interests perfectly intersected. Anything she didn't like to do, I'd do. And she'd do things I had no interest in. It's so fucking great. But the all-timer is Soul Calibur 1. Soul Calibur got us here, and it'll hold a special place in my heart because of that.
June 7, 2025 at 3:59 AM
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Pecan · 2h You and Kacey are in a tag match for the belts, what's your finisher to win? our opponent is down on the mat, i pick up kacey and powerbomb her directly onto them. Then I hold onto her, lift her up and throw her into our opponent's partner to knock them off the apron so they can't break up the pin.
June 7, 2025 at 3:58 AM
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Anonymous Coward · 1h Promise this isn't a "happy to see you upset" thing but genuinely I'm extremely happy to see someone affect you so strongly. Love is fucked up, right? [Positive] Anyways, as for an actual question... you have no limits on food budget and all the time you need. What do you make yourself for dinner. Your highest effort, "I never have time to do this" kind of meal. 🎤 Its ALWAYS okay to be happy to see me uspet. (lmfao) For real tho, love is Fucked Up In A Good Way. Ive been hurting a lot the past day or so, but in no way do i see it as a negative. The worst ive felt is “things were a lot simpler before”. And well, things are different now. Complex, yes. But better. Legit if i had the time/space/budget I would be grilling all the time. I’d be smoking brisket, id be making burgers, id be slathering ribs in sauce. I just fucking love bbq and never get the chance to do it for myself so thats what id do with no limits.
May 19, 2025 at 9:26 PM
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Anonymous Coward · 12h Now that you've gotten to be around her in person, tell us something you really like about Kacey Kacey just... calms me. I always feel at peace around her. She also understands me in a way people haven't before. She listens to me talk, and a lot of the time is able to help me understand what I'm talking about in new ways that I'd never thought of before. She also makes me feel so comfortable with things being... quiet. There have been plenty of times where there was no tv, no music, no sound going on whatsoever and we just were sitting quietly in each other's presence. I don't even do that when I'm by myself. But just, her prescence brings me a level of peace I've never felt before. What I like the most about her is that she's making me feel ways I've never felt before, in so many different directions. And for that, I'm so glad she's in my life.
May 14, 2025 at 12:17 AM
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Anonymous Coward · 11h What draws you to the Ojou-Sama type of characters? First off the laugh and how stupid it is. Incredibly obnoxious, and its so asinine how holding the hand in front of the mouth is. They're also a type of spoiled brat/elitist character, which always goes one of two ways. One, you see that they're insecure and are actually a good and decent person, but they're just so caught up with appearances and not wanting people to get close to them. So they self-sabotage. They intentionally isolate themselves at the top of the social strata and don't let others up there. It's not because they hate people, it's because they hate themselves and don't want to interrogate it when people actually want to be friends. It's simpler and easier to just be aloof and alone. Believe it or not, I find that really relatable. The second is that they actually ARE a piece of shit, and 100% of the time they end up being humbled in the funniest/most extreme way.
May 14, 2025 at 12:13 AM
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Anonymous Coward · 1d sorry for the Slightly Deep q, but what are your thoughts on the concept of gender being informed by outside factors/experience? experimentation with gender as a coping mechanism? thanks!! I think no matter the circumstances I think your gender is valid if you’re happy with it. Like, how we get to what our gender is can be anything. Sometimes its trauma, and how to deal with that trauma. Sometimes someone won’t be able to explore their gender if they dont have a safe space to do so. I think all the time about people who live in conservative areas and never even have a chance to think about their gender, but for some reason they always feel uneasy. I also think experimentation with gender as a coping mechanism is great! Give yourself a vacation from how you currently are. Try on a new identity. Get Weird with it, or get Extemely Regular but Different with it. The best part about gender is you can always go back. Experimentation is wildly important because you never know if you dont try. If you dont like it? Hey, that’s cool! Now you know! You’ve done more introspection about your gender than 99% of people, and now have a new perspective on it. The worse case scenario is now you know FOR SURE that youre cis. At the end of the day the concept of gender is fucking made up and you can do whatever you want. There are cultures across the world with wildly different concepts of gender. To restrict yourself to just being the Man Or Woman you were born as is fucking boring. Live a little. Shave your head. Put on a skirt. Do some wild shit. You might surprise yourself.
May 9, 2025 at 3:26 PM
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Juliette · 1d hey i keep forgetting things what drawing tablet do you use. thanks in advance for any advice I use a Wacom Intuos 3 6x8 drawing tablet that I have had since 2007. It's a workhorse, sturdy, and has done well for me. Almost everything I've ever made digitally was made on this thing. I had a Monoprice tablet that I used for a little while that worked fine, and kinda actually helped me with my transition from traditional art to digital, as the surface on it was toothier and felt a little closer to what I was used to. However, the pen did require batteries where the wacom pen does not. Third-party tablets (both drawing and screen ones) work fine for the most part, but take a little extra wrangling to get the software working just right in windows. Wacom, due to being pretty much the industry standard, has much better software that works a lot easier, though you do pay a premium for their products. Having used both, and having somewhat of a tech background, I will say Wacom is very much worth it. Even if tinkering with drivers to get a third-party one working right is do-able, a Wacom is just so much easier to deal with, with a lot fewer headaches. Take this with a grain of salt, however. I'm not 100% on how their more modern products are because, as stated before, my tablet is from 2007 so that's the only one I can truly vouch for.
May 4, 2025 at 10:26 PM
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so did kacey go to you first or did you go to kacey about your feelings oh she made the first move. she gets full credit on that. I was in heavy denial about my feelings. That was the play for me for years. If I felt like I had feelings for somebody I'd just ignore them and bury them until they went away. I always had excuses why a relationship "wouldn't work". Hanging out with Kacey I definitely felt feelings percolating and I did my damndest to ignore them. I didn't go so far as to cut off spending time with her because I was having such a good time during a period where I honestly was incredibly stressed out. There were several moments where I was like "fuck... do I? oh fucking god DAMMIT" I kept it to myself. I didn't tell anybody about it. I'm sure people assumed things but I just kept to myself hoping that I'd just move past it like I always did. But kacey cornered me and I had to confront my feelings. And whoops, turns out I like her a lot.
April 21, 2025 at 2:32 PM
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Anonymous Coward · 10h Do you like being touched by others, within reason. Any particular places you do or don't like to be touched regardless? I do in fact like being touched by others, and I have had a distinct lack of it in recent years. I've been living by myself for a few years now and also been a bit of a homebody so opportunites for physical contact have been few and far between. But man, I'm absolutely the person who's like hey, hug your friends. Lean on each other on the couch. It's healing. While I don't think that there's any particular place I like being touched, I will say that a feeling I've been chasing for years is when I was with my ex and she'd be on top of me, sometimes our bellies would brush against each other and it drove me insane. I was fat, she wasn't, but she did have a little bit of a tummy, and when our bellies would touch it felt really fucking good. Of course, she was embarassed about being "fat", even tho I was twice her size and she'd constantly talk about how much she liked how I was fat. While that was really affirming, and definitely helped me get over any insecurity about being fat, she would say shit like "boys are allowed to be fat, girls aren't." Well I'm girls now and I'm fat so really what does she know. The extra bit to all of this is that nobody's really touched my body ever since I transitioned so like, lemmie get back to you on this one.
April 16, 2025 at 3:31 AM
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Anonymous Coward · 8h talk about something that got you excited recently! I got a raise at my job AND a year-end bonus! So with that I was able to finally pay off the last bit of my student loans! After making payments for literally 18 years im DONE and it feels great. It especially does because now my last line connecting me to art as a career I can finally cut off. It's an odd way to see it but I'm so stoked that I can fully see art as just a hobby and not as something I have to make money on. Plus like, i got laid off from my last two jobs, both within the same year. To not only work at a place for a full year AND get a really good performance review AND get the full possible raise AND a bonus is really affirming. Like oh right, I do have a good work ethic and it shows, and finally people who employ me are recognizing it. It feels like real sellout shit to be excited about my job but honestly it's meant a lot that one of my biggest stressors of the past few years is settled. Oh uh, I guess my girlfriend gets me excited or whatever.
April 16, 2025 at 3:30 AM
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Anonymous Coward · 7m gay? recently? yeah. I'll openly admit I've had a hard time calling myself 'gay' because my sexuality always felt nebulous. Like the only thing I was ever really sure of was I'm not straight or cis, and the details I'm just working out as I go. But lately? Yeah I think gay qualifies.
April 15, 2025 at 3:31 PM
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Anonymous Coward · 1h What do you think was "the" media that transformed you? Whether it was ideals, behavior, gender, etc. this is a tough one because there's a lot of ones that impacted me over time and I didn't realize it until years later. Like ranma making me comfortable in the idea of "huh what if I could be a girl part time" or death race 2000 implementing the idea of "hey maybe hero worship is terrible and those being worshipped should use their platform to make sweeping change" If anything, media I've enjoyed has given a voice and/or words to my experiences that I couldn't find before. Sayonara Wild Hearts touched me with a visual and audatory representation of my struggles with anxiety and burnout, and how recovery isn't a straight line. Actually I think it's Sayonara Wild Hearts because that game kinda became a signpost for when I realized I was no longer drowning, and was actually recovering. That moment when you realize you're no longer in danger, and your body exits survival mode, and all you can do is cry to let every bit of emotion out that you'd been holding back.
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