Lol, I did specifically choose a collar-esque necklace to have at least a little edge in my look

Any general that does not walk out on that speech has already betrayed their oaths

If the reporting that this is the roommate is correct, he could be a femboy (and no one that's not either terminally online or trans likely understands the distinction) and that still entirely fits the other evidence pointing towards groyper.

And you did not speak out
Because you were not a trans person
Then they’ll come for someone else
And you will not speak out
Because it doesn’t impact you
Then they’ll be coming for you
And there will be no one left
To speak out for you
Things are grim friends, we must fight this with all we have

Thanks Chris welcome back to the land of bluesky