this is not what a friendship should be like, I it's hard to find other friends because of him causing problems if he finds out I am talking to someone else, he will always try to find something problematic about them and then be upset at me just because he is insecure, no respect for my privacy

if I am not allowed to be myself without hurting him all the time from simple little things then this "friendship" is not gonna workout, he constantly stalks my accounts and always judges what I repost all the time, I'm tired of being fearful from just trying to be myself and not their emotion toy

He has this weird obsessive behavior that he does for quite a lot of stuff to me like in vrchat I am not allowed to Erp with anyone or he says it will "affect our friendship" even though I just wanna play vrchat but can't because anytime I'm online he starts getting suspicious of me Erping and upset

I have no freedom to be myself because of him, he plays the victim all the time anytime he does something wrong to me and blames me for it, even though he starts making random stuff up about me accusing me of doing stuff I never did or outlandish things like Erping with someone on vrchat

Like I try to be the nicest I possibly can be since I don't like being rude but some people are just way too obsessive and take all my energy I have away to the point where if I start getting frustrated from them not giving me space they get mad at me for trying to take care of myself.

my stress is through the roof everyday all because some people can't just learn to be alone for a single damn day