I did adopts knowing little about the community and kinda learnt as I bought a few myself and everytime I sold one. I looked up the basics of what I needed to know and started off on TH as that's a big adopt hub

Falling asleep with hypnos blankets looks soooo comfy

Ohh yeah, that's the good stuff

Ik it won't be easiest as we were luckily both switches so it was easy to flip flop but just make sure you're locking after your 'mommy' as much as they look after you. If you're purely a sub you can still help.

Communication is key! So please don't feel guilty for wanting a dynamic

Your sexual desires aren't a burden. Always Being in a certain position can be exhausting. I got burnout from being a top to various people. I wanted to be allowed to let go out the reins. With 1 partner we'd take turns and just allow the mood to shift it someone needed something different

That's valid & it's really sweet you wanna make sure you don't burn out a partner (sexual, romantic, ect) but the point is, there should also be healthy communication if burnout is coming & ask if there are alternatives & ways to keep sex good 4 u both. Figure out the dynamic that will uplift u both

I use to feel too guilty at the idea of waking my mom up so id stand by the bed and stare at her until she woke up, all teary eyed - if it was from being sick or a nightmare - until she snapped awake gasping and scared coz she just sees a figure looming in the dark

If you or anyone you know makes pool-floaty style suits - please let me know! Advertise!

HUMMINA

Congrats!!