Same. Getting very nervous about some trips I have planned for March.

If it was not written or said by the family, I agree it is not acceptable.

My stepmom is Chinese and when we say things like this it is with a term of endearment. I obviously can't speak for Asians in general. But only for my family.

This is totally something I might do….

I just recorded an episode for a new podcast and he was saying to optimize for TikTok. I was like 😬