just have the character be a transfem gay man. those exist. like youre allowed to do this, its more embarrassing and weird to make it more obvious you dgaf about women

RIGHT EXACTLY.... let men be masculine!!!!

yknow. offering a support for people experiencing marginalizing social pressures. which is tiring!

FOR REAL... its just very frustrating because like sex and desire are such real genuine pressures so reassuring people almost exclusively(bc i basically only see posts validating ace people liking sex) that its okay to like sex feels more like reassuring people they can use a label rather than like.

theyre honestly not even subjects im inherently triggered by ftr its just that they make my skin crawl because ive never met a person into them who wasnt a raging fucking jerk

going from nsfw account to posting nsfw on main and using this for takes im very scared of getting yelled at about/upsetting other people with. probably still nsfw tho

he knows this is a wish he'll never get, to be treated kindly. so instead he has to settle for being treated badly in a way hes familiar with. man

anyways got very sad thinking about how obyron figures out hes not hallucinating because if his brain was just showing him what he wanted zahndrekh wouldve been nicer to him

aethlyn insightfully compared how zahn treats obyron to how setekh sees/treats sepa and sata and i just. grimaced smile