Majimiku!

I'm like 99% sure she's ok, and the 1% is paranoia that the asshole put in my mind. I hope she blocked his number.

I haven't been able to talk to her yet, but I gave him a huge chewing-out. He usually doesn't like, respect my opinion, but he seemed to be in a somewhat willing-to-talk-to-me mood. Probably because she isn't willing to talk to him and he's somewhat desperate to know if she's ok

I'm so surrounded by queer community that I often forget that het couples are like, the most common type, ostensibly. It just doesn't feel true to my experience lmao

You can do whatever you want forever

Gorgeous flowers! It goes well with your sweater!

This has been a discoursey vent post.

I don't mind being excluded on a demographic basis from various marginalized communities. I'm not transfem, I'm not Black, I'm not Deaf, I'm not disabled. I do mind when people post publicly talking shit about other members of the trans community that they see as less marginalized than themselves.

I'm not going into spaces that are explicitly demarcated as transfem. I just keep socializing with transfems because I like their blogs or whatnot, and then suddenly get hit with a "theyfabs are invading our spaces" and feel thrown way the fuck off.

The idea that enbies can't experience what "real women" do is just frustrating as hell to me. And it's not like it's mostly cis people saying this! I feel like it's a division in the trans community that's growing, and making me feel alienated in spaces I was once comfortable.

That being said, I end up in women's spaces sometimes, and my relation to femininity changes from time to time. The concepts of tma and tme get bandied about a lot, seemingly as a proxy for assigned gender as relating to femininity.

I don't really pass as male. I'm always assumed to be some kind of woman by those who see me. It's something that frustrates me and something I have to live with. I don't identify as a woman and try to keep the idea of womanhood vaguely at arm's length.