so envioussss

it might feel sometimes impossible to be the amount of feminine you want to be, but you CAN achieve that level of femininity through self-education. you also need to stop treating your body as an unfortunate thing to be ignored and start looking at it as an opportunity.

i can and will write a whole post on my blog about trying to be a stereotypical feminine bimbo when your body doesn't meet all of these ideal benchmarks.... without surgery!

if you need cute legwear, go get sheer or opaque tights, or go for a fishnet with a finer mesh or a color closer to your skin color or the color of your outfit. i'm sorry, you're welcome.

if you have wide shoulders and high contrast between your skin and body hair like me, the shadowy look will be better for your arms than your legs.

i say this from experience: if your fishnets are making your legs look shadowy/hairy/bruised, and your top has you feeling like michael phelps when you wanted to feel like barbie, you need to cut a hole in the crotch of those fishnets and use them as sleeves under your top.