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29 / he/they / Artist
Weeb, MLB, and Undertale trash
Lover of all things monstrous and Kaiju.
Oh, and now to dwindle too much. Typically, I see trashing your own art as constantly comparing yourself to others, saying things like "it could be better," "it's not my best." Basically, trashing yourself is only being negative with no positives. So, with your example, you were not trashing. Lmao
January 9, 2024 at 10:27 PM
It's good to set boundaries for people. As the internet says 'haters gonna hate' and all you can do is let them deal with it since you're not obligated to cater to people even if they compliment you.
January 9, 2024 at 10:19 PM
Tell them that I am uncomfortable making art for people I don't know that well. Because it's the truth - free things for friends and people I know is less scary than disappointing someone I don't know. Since if I know the person I know, they'll love the art unconditionally.
January 9, 2024 at 10:16 PM
That's the hard part, getting over others' opinions and perceptions of you. It makes it hard to love oneself when others seem hell-bent on making you out to be the worst.

I'm sorry you've had people try to exploit your insecurities for free things. When people try to get free art from me I just-
January 9, 2024 at 10:15 PM
Absolutely, I get that. I also suffer from self-esteem problems, especially when it comes to passions I have. I'm glad you're overcoming that obstacle! It's a hard journey that I am sure.
January 9, 2024 at 10:13 PM
Sorry if I overstepped, though! I wasn't sure if you actually wanted a response, and I realize that might have been rude to me.
January 9, 2024 at 9:33 PM
That. However, some people may mistake it as being overly humble, especially if they admire your work.
January 9, 2024 at 9:31 PM
I don't think it's bad to be aware of your own flaws in the world of creating. You won't please everyone. You'll always have that 50/50 of criticism on your own view of your art.

What matters is that you're happy with the art AND want to improve in areas. There's nothing wrong with letting others-
January 9, 2024 at 9:30 PM
So I want to doodle edgy Marinette and Adrien 🫠
January 9, 2024 at 9:11 PM