I just lost my dad in law a week ago, who was by any measure my actual second dad/parent. Left in a flash. The weight of everything I left unsaid and the hugs I didn't give him weigh on me like a blanket. Always there, not always the focus, but the regret is always there. My condolences Anton.

Big if true

If you like birds at all I'd highly recommend checking out Bird Paradise, be prepared for being outdoors a fair amount but it's the best aviary I've ever been to hands down.

Whenever I see the word discourse pop up I take it as a sign that I've been on online too long and should go take a stroll in the woods