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4. Recognize the exchange you’re there for, but don’t confuse the necessary boundaries with lack of genuineness

There are plenty more and not intended to be comprehensive; other clients or providers please add to this.

3. If your budget allows, take a vacation with a provider; she may have certain boundaries to ask about but generally these shared experiences bring you closer

2. What worked FOR ME is finding a small number of providers that are a good chemistry fit for me and seeing them often. Trust me, things don’t get less exciting, they get better!

1. Just be fucking “normal”. Treat SWers with the same courtesy you’d extend to anyone you meet, and especially those you want to be intimate with