Richard Siken
richard-siken.bsky.social
Richard Siken
@richard-siken.bsky.social
The peach pit is the plot. The fiction writer has it, the poet doesn't. The poet can fake it (the poet can fake anything) and the fiction writer can ignore it, but still.
November 21, 2024 at 8:01 PM
Oh, it isn't a crisis. Either you naturally lean towards plot or you lean away from it. You can adjust your posture. You can do anything you want.
November 21, 2024 at 7:57 PM
You can't be both. You can write in any form or genre, but you are either a poet and a fiction writer. They have different temperaments.
poets.org/poem/politic...
The Politics of Narrative: Why I Am A Poet
Jill's a good kid who's had some tough luck. But that's
poets.org
November 21, 2024 at 8:46 AM
I like to think so :)
November 21, 2024 at 4:55 AM
Poets and onions have no core. Peel away the layers and nothing's left. Fiction writers have a core. They are like peaches.
November 21, 2024 at 4:54 AM
Today was good. I've got two more days of it. It's as simple as you think. I read into a microphone. When I mess up. I do the line over.
November 20, 2024 at 3:09 AM
My boundary is basically: if you can google it, you should start there. Then we can talk :)
November 19, 2024 at 9:31 PM
There will be people who will love you in ways you haven't even thought of. You may be disappointed with what's being offered right now, but don't stick too firmly to your way of thinking about being loved.
November 19, 2024 at 9:29 PM
I want to get away from Elon. I'm doing both right now. Not sure what this one's like yet.
November 19, 2024 at 9:27 PM
I was thinking that, too :)
November 19, 2024 at 7:24 AM
Hi :) The party's just starting
November 19, 2024 at 6:08 AM
Also, Crush is 20 years old. There's a new hardcover anniversary edition coming out in the spring.
November 18, 2024 at 4:18 AM
Tomorrow morning I record the audiobook for Crush.
November 18, 2024 at 4:13 AM
Want to know a secret?
November 18, 2024 at 4:09 AM
I will talk to anyone who is genuine and curious. People I thought would never give me the time of day actually took the time to answer my questions when I was younger. I am, we are, part of a long tradition.
November 18, 2024 at 4:09 AM
I'm glad I inspire you to write. Eventually it will be your turn to be wise and inspiring. These disappointments are how you get wise. Failure is how you learn. You aren't having a problem with loving or being lovable, you just haven't found a good match yet.
November 18, 2024 at 3:58 AM
If you add sex into the mix, it gets more complicated. Feelings, etc.. The whole thing is a sloppy mess.
November 18, 2024 at 3:55 AM
It's hard to know yourself well enough to know what you want and commit to it, especially if you're under 25. A traditional engagement is one year before you get married, just to make sure. You're not even talking about marriage. It's okay to spend time with someone and not love them.
November 18, 2024 at 3:54 AM
When people tell you what they want, you should believe them. It's hard to say what you want. It takes bravery. She is being brave and honest. It's an awful disappointment for you, though. She doesn't feel the electricity. You do. There's no way around it, you don't match each other.
November 18, 2024 at 3:49 AM
Two great people can make one bad match. She is telling you two truths. Believe her when she says you are the greatest thing. Also believe her when she says she wants different. Either she wants an uncommitted life or she's waiting for someone else to commit to.
November 18, 2024 at 3:47 AM
Can you make someone love you? I don't think so. Can you set up situations where love might happen? That you can do. Are you in a relationship and she's comfortable but won't call it love? Are you dating but she won't commit? Are only flirting? Each needs a different approach.
November 18, 2024 at 3:22 AM
Poems are sad. If you want to impress her, start painting. If you want to seduce her, learn how to cook.
November 18, 2024 at 1:43 AM
The thing is, it doesn't matter if you have it or you don't have it. The important part is the image, the turn of phrase. The pears. The shoes.
November 17, 2024 at 3:33 AM