Ron
@rheal73.bsky.social
Rediscovery in action.
52 and recently out as a queer man.
I’m on an adventure, and learning my own new life.
52 and recently out as a queer man.
I’m on an adventure, and learning my own new life.
Walked with my pup. He’s such a sweet boy.
November 11, 2025 at 8:44 PM
Walked with my pup. He’s such a sweet boy.
Ok, so total sapfest. Watching Heartstopper alone. Wondering ‘what could have been’. There’s a part of denying your own self and creating a persona that is a survivor. I’m done with just surviving.
November 11, 2025 at 4:20 AM
Ok, so total sapfest. Watching Heartstopper alone. Wondering ‘what could have been’. There’s a part of denying your own self and creating a persona that is a survivor. I’m done with just surviving.
Picked up a hobby/passtime/project&dopamine generator. Starting with ordering and receiving my first waist trainer and hip pads.
November 9, 2025 at 8:59 PM
Picked up a hobby/passtime/project&dopamine generator. Starting with ordering and receiving my first waist trainer and hip pads.
One month into living solo, and finally ready to have guests visit.
Ok, so not multiples… I have one spare place to sit. That’s enough for now, right?
Ok, so not multiples… I have one spare place to sit. That’s enough for now, right?
November 6, 2025 at 9:48 PM
One month into living solo, and finally ready to have guests visit.
Ok, so not multiples… I have one spare place to sit. That’s enough for now, right?
Ok, so not multiples… I have one spare place to sit. That’s enough for now, right?
Mixed emotions packing up to move out. Living with the same person for 31+ years integrates your lives so fundamentally. Not to mention the kids who have been around for almost 28 of those.
Somehow I was supposed to grow up while being hyper-focused on the lives of developing humans.
Somehow I was supposed to grow up while being hyper-focused on the lives of developing humans.
September 14, 2025 at 3:47 AM
Mixed emotions packing up to move out. Living with the same person for 31+ years integrates your lives so fundamentally. Not to mention the kids who have been around for almost 28 of those.
Somehow I was supposed to grow up while being hyper-focused on the lives of developing humans.
Somehow I was supposed to grow up while being hyper-focused on the lives of developing humans.
Today is a re-read every email twice for tone kinda day.
August 25, 2025 at 3:40 PM
Today is a re-read every email twice for tone kinda day.
Today is not a good day.
August 20, 2025 at 7:10 PM
Today is not a good day.
Have I ever told you how much I hate needles.
August 13, 2025 at 4:53 PM
Have I ever told you how much I hate needles.
Petrichor, ah… we needed this.
August 6, 2025 at 3:36 AM
Petrichor, ah… we needed this.
So many things. Thank goodness for counselling.
August 5, 2025 at 9:06 PM
So many things. Thank goodness for counselling.
Overheard:
“Oh, you talked to a hot Lesbian, that’s why?!”
“Oh, you talked to a hot Lesbian, that’s why?!”
August 4, 2025 at 1:18 AM
Overheard:
“Oh, you talked to a hot Lesbian, that’s why?!”
“Oh, you talked to a hot Lesbian, that’s why?!”
First pride party was good.
The event itself was just kinda meh.
Being out in the daytime, dancing like nobody’s watching, but hoping they are… priceless.
The flow took me to volunteering for 4 hrs in exchange for a guest list spot for tonight’s closing party.
The event itself was just kinda meh.
Being out in the daytime, dancing like nobody’s watching, but hoping they are… priceless.
The flow took me to volunteering for 4 hrs in exchange for a guest list spot for tonight’s closing party.
August 3, 2025 at 4:27 PM
First pride party was good.
The event itself was just kinda meh.
Being out in the daytime, dancing like nobody’s watching, but hoping they are… priceless.
The flow took me to volunteering for 4 hrs in exchange for a guest list spot for tonight’s closing party.
The event itself was just kinda meh.
Being out in the daytime, dancing like nobody’s watching, but hoping they are… priceless.
The flow took me to volunteering for 4 hrs in exchange for a guest list spot for tonight’s closing party.
Here we go. First Pride weekend out.
Got my fit picked, nails did, go bag packed.
Shower, hair, then off to the skytrain.
Got my fit picked, nails did, go bag packed.
Shower, hair, then off to the skytrain.
August 2, 2025 at 3:32 PM
Here we go. First Pride weekend out.
Got my fit picked, nails did, go bag packed.
Shower, hair, then off to the skytrain.
Got my fit picked, nails did, go bag packed.
Shower, hair, then off to the skytrain.
Second time at the beach. Turfed the clothes early and strolled right onto the beach. F-it.
August 2, 2025 at 1:24 AM
Second time at the beach. Turfed the clothes early and strolled right onto the beach. F-it.
Like it or lump it. This is my account, so here goes…..
Let me introduce my self to you.
I’m a 52yo Babyqueer. Yeah that’s right sweethearts.
So anywhoo… I have this friend who opened my eyes to all sorts of things this weekend, and encourages me to get out of my closet more.
So today….
Let me introduce my self to you.
I’m a 52yo Babyqueer. Yeah that’s right sweethearts.
So anywhoo… I have this friend who opened my eyes to all sorts of things this weekend, and encourages me to get out of my closet more.
So today….
July 31, 2025 at 5:07 AM
Like it or lump it. This is my account, so here goes…..
Let me introduce my self to you.
I’m a 52yo Babyqueer. Yeah that’s right sweethearts.
So anywhoo… I have this friend who opened my eyes to all sorts of things this weekend, and encourages me to get out of my closet more.
So today….
Let me introduce my self to you.
I’m a 52yo Babyqueer. Yeah that’s right sweethearts.
So anywhoo… I have this friend who opened my eyes to all sorts of things this weekend, and encourages me to get out of my closet more.
So today….
Some drives are long, some could be longer.
Then there’s the ones where you are rerouted sixteen times, have to pee way before there’s any option except the side of the road, blow a tire, and get covered in dirt.
Today’s was not one of those. 🤣
Then there’s the ones where you are rerouted sixteen times, have to pee way before there’s any option except the side of the road, blow a tire, and get covered in dirt.
Today’s was not one of those. 🤣
July 28, 2025 at 5:00 AM
Some drives are long, some could be longer.
Then there’s the ones where you are rerouted sixteen times, have to pee way before there’s any option except the side of the road, blow a tire, and get covered in dirt.
Today’s was not one of those. 🤣
Then there’s the ones where you are rerouted sixteen times, have to pee way before there’s any option except the side of the road, blow a tire, and get covered in dirt.
Today’s was not one of those. 🤣
Someone showed me the world
Shining, shimmering, splendid
Sometimes a Disney song can be speak in the most inappropriate ways.
Shining, shimmering, splendid
Sometimes a Disney song can be speak in the most inappropriate ways.
July 27, 2025 at 4:52 PM
Someone showed me the world
Shining, shimmering, splendid
Sometimes a Disney song can be speak in the most inappropriate ways.
Shining, shimmering, splendid
Sometimes a Disney song can be speak in the most inappropriate ways.
A fantastic day. <chef’s kiss>
July 27, 2025 at 7:02 AM
A fantastic day. <chef’s kiss>
Morning deck-coffee realization.
I need to take care of myself first, then I can take care of others. If I feel good about myself, then I am able to give from altruism rather than obligation.
I need to take care of myself first, then I can take care of others. If I feel good about myself, then I am able to give from altruism rather than obligation.
July 26, 2025 at 5:16 PM
Morning deck-coffee realization.
I need to take care of myself first, then I can take care of others. If I feel good about myself, then I am able to give from altruism rather than obligation.
I need to take care of myself first, then I can take care of others. If I feel good about myself, then I am able to give from altruism rather than obligation.
Friday night laundry. Yippee!
The sacrifices we make to spend laundry day off gallivanting.
I hope I plan well enough for a whole day out…
#dayoutdowntown
The sacrifices we make to spend laundry day off gallivanting.
I hope I plan well enough for a whole day out…
#dayoutdowntown
July 26, 2025 at 5:59 AM
Friday night laundry. Yippee!
The sacrifices we make to spend laundry day off gallivanting.
I hope I plan well enough for a whole day out…
#dayoutdowntown
The sacrifices we make to spend laundry day off gallivanting.
I hope I plan well enough for a whole day out…
#dayoutdowntown
Here’s the profound first post.
Feel pro, or found yet?
Feel pro, or found yet?
July 25, 2025 at 4:59 PM
Here’s the profound first post.
Feel pro, or found yet?
Feel pro, or found yet?