Joe Paxton
revjoepaxtonphd.bsky.social
Joe Paxton
@revjoepaxtonphd.bsky.social
MS. MDiv. MA. PhD. <— not success.
Success is who you are, not what you achieve. Here to talk about the good life

Specialities: spiritually-integrative psychotherapy, psychology of mass shootings, trauma-informed care, & mattering.

Ordained: ELCA
The conundrum of BlueSky:

Answer a fool according to their folly and you will be(come) like them.

Answer a fool according to their folly, or they will be wise in their own eyes.
March 19, 2025 at 2:58 PM
Your value doesn’t decreased based on someone else’s inability to see your worth
March 19, 2025 at 2:57 PM
Friendly reminder to be kind to yourself today
March 17, 2025 at 8:36 PM
Could it be that the greatest perpetrators in your life is you? Nobody is harsher, more critical, less forgiving, or conservative in their compassion and understanding than you? I think of the song by Pink, “Don’t let me get me” (I am my own worst enemy)
March 17, 2025 at 8:36 PM
Success is who you are, not what you achieve (or how many followers you have)
March 17, 2025 at 6:42 PM
Martin Luther was a huge advocate of neighbor-love. And he says since your spouse is your closest neighbor, they should be a person’s deepest love 💗
March 17, 2025 at 6:09 PM
Every time I see someone who is houseless or asking for money on a street corner I’m moved with compassion and sympathy. I’m humble and intelligent enough to know if I had a similar background, upbringing, and experience(s) that could be me.
March 17, 2025 at 6:09 PM
Should we give to pandhandlers? Martin Luther would say yes. His theological economic is summarized in his words, “What is that to you? (If they misuse what you give them.) Give to them anyways!”
March 17, 2025 at 6:08 PM
Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s (or anyone’s) inability to see your worth.
March 16, 2025 at 11:48 PM
Remember (especially in disagreements): how you treat others is a reflection of your character. It doesn’t matter what they did or what they said, how you respond is a reflection of you.
March 13, 2025 at 12:07 AM
Had professional photos taken last week during our trip to Arizona. Super grateful for the gift of family
March 12, 2025 at 11:29 PM
The Great Dallas Willard reminds me that the Christian should be one who is (very) difficult to offend.
March 12, 2025 at 10:34 PM
To live well people need to learn how to let others be wrong about them. People are going to jump to conclusions and think bad things or wrong things about you. Let them.
March 12, 2025 at 7:55 PM
The number one reason why you should forgive today is so you don’t become like the person who hurt you
March 12, 2025 at 4:17 PM
Christ calls us from transactional relationships to transformational relationships. From reciprocity to hospitality.
March 12, 2025 at 3:19 PM
Reposted by Joe Paxton
Coffee shops in Canada are renaming the Americano drink to ‘Canadiano.’
March 8, 2025 at 4:17 PM
Roasting coffee. Beans are direct trade from Mexico. Region: Jaltenago de La Paz. ☕️
March 12, 2025 at 2:38 AM
Grace is for growth
March 11, 2025 at 6:20 PM
Matthew 18:3 talks about children. Children are valuable for many reasons but one is that they see things adults don’t: psych research from Alison Gopnik, Daniel Plebanek, and Vladimir Sloutsky show this. The church needs everyone
March 11, 2025 at 3:59 PM
Leadership is always relationship
March 11, 2025 at 1:03 PM
What does it mean for people who follow Jesus to take seriously the fact that Jesus came to bring division; and hold this in tension with the call to be peacemakers and participate in the ministries of reconciliation?
March 11, 2025 at 1:36 AM
Emotions aren’t bad but they can be if they run and ruin your perceptions. Just because you feel a way doesn’t mean you, your life, or others are a certain way. Watch out for emotional reasoning: I feel therefore I am.
March 10, 2025 at 6:26 PM
The only thing that can defeat you today is your own arrogance
March 10, 2025 at 4:35 PM
It doesn’t matter who you voted for: we’re all in the asylum. You have to decide today, who are you going to be? Are you going to be a patient or a provider? Are you going to help or are you going to hurt? Are you going to cause problems or resolve problems?
It's official: The lunatics are now running the asylum.
March 10, 2025 at 4:28 PM
It’s cliché and hackneyed but we need to hear it over and over again: progress not perfection today.
March 10, 2025 at 4:25 PM