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Retrophiliac
@retrophiliac.bsky.social
Often misunderstood….
I reflect on taking responsibility and learning, while highlighting how autistic traits are often misunderstood or punished, and why our communities should support rather than exclude each other.
October 1, 2025 at 8:09 PM
Ethical sharing means crediting creators, sharing from the source, and respecting the time, effort, and care behind every piece. Always check the source and uplift creators instead of reposting without permission.
September 28, 2025 at 9:09 PM
I know my own past behaviour may have sometimes added to this, but I made the choice to grow and change. It is never too late to pause, reflect, and choose compassion over division. Our community is stronger when we uplift one another instead of tearing each other down.
September 26, 2025 at 5:12 PM
That does not build credibility; it shows a willingness to accept whatever “truth” suits the moment without leaving room for nuance. Sadly, this is how lateral ableism continues to thrive, with our own community pitted against each other instead of supported.
September 26, 2025 at 5:12 PM
Thank you
September 21, 2025 at 12:56 AM
If these organizations really want to work with me, they can start by supporting my disability-focused business instead of ignoring my needs.
September 17, 2025 at 5:43 AM
Self-employment lets me control my environment, protect my health, and create meaningful work. I design enamel pins and communication tools, run workshops, and advocate for others. Your support helps me share my work, reach the right audiences, and build sustainable opportunities.
September 16, 2025 at 4:49 AM
Such responses undermine the idea of truly caring for the community. If you witness it, consider disengaging from those who do it, because they will likely choose not to care about you or your mental health either. Their focus is on controlling the narrative, not on supporting people’s well-being.
September 13, 2025 at 7:36 PM
It is okay to protect your boundaries, step away from unsafe spaces, and prioritize your well-being. Recognizing patterns, holding space for mental health, and staying compassionate while accountable helps build safer, healthier autistic spaces online.
September 13, 2025 at 6:58 PM
If you can, please share my link with retailers or organizations who might carry my items. Every referral helps me continue supporting the communities I care about most.
September 12, 2025 at 5:12 AM
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September 12, 2025 at 5:12 AM