But for "category" there is no need to label it. For myself as example, I am a trans woman who has medical need for hrt. There, no need to section off a whole set of trans people with cis. Label yourself however you want I will not only respect it but defend your right to it!

They use cissexuel in the exact ways you say it's not used for, I called that bullshit out. Admittedly wasn't specific about being in general and not all directed at you, so serious apologies for that. Should have clarified, I am sorry for that.

I am medically transitioning, and when I can get it, surgery as well. If you genuinely can't see my problem is when ANYONE forces a label on someone who specifically says no to it, then I can't help you. You may not do this, and genuinely good for you if you don't, but others do with malice.

That's a self built pyre you have there, and dramatic for being called out on the usages of a word, but a martyr you are not. If wanting people's identities respected makes me "one of the good ones" and opposed to the ones mislabeling people and seeing them as lesser trans, then call me good girl.

We don't count or matter to them because we aren't "doing trans" right (their way). They want an in group that they control who's is "really" trans and who isn't. So glad I haven't seen or heard any of this crap offline.

I genuinely think people who defend cissexual like this are incapable of seeing this, they are way too far in their own heads.

And it's a public forum, don't want random coming in, take it to DMs, I'm not responsible for you wanting a private conversation when basically in public

I was just calling out your bullshit, ignoring to how that word is most used, especially here. "I'm not responsible for my own actions and how hey effect others." Wild....

"(Cissexual)carries no value judgement nor devaluation/invalidation of someone's transness" because i know you aren't in good faith because of this quote here. Because you know it does do just that, and the connotations behind the word. Especially from those who see some people as "lesser trans".

How about you show respect to people and don't refer to them as something that makes them feel invalidated and judged? Seems really hard for the group of you to have that basic amount of respect to value people who are going through similar struggles. But no you just HAVE to segregate others

They are absolutely the type to dish it out but not be able to take it. And they would never be able to look at themselves objectively to see the irony

Honestly, I'm considering just calling them terfs. They are acting just like them, in forcing labels onto us with gleeful malice or at bare minimum no care to how it effects us.