MaryJo
realmaryjo.bsky.social
MaryJo
@realmaryjo.bsky.social
Old demonstrator tired of the struggle; Alzheimer's Caregiver group facilitator; running my sanctuary for unadoptable/special-needs street cats; wishing I qualified for Canada....No MAGA, real-estate, Only Fans looking stuff, cos-play, DM, zero posts
The other word would've gotten me banned.
April 17, 2025 at 4:28 PM
But I need people to think about how systemic ageism IS comparable to systemic racism. And they will not begin to consider it. NO one resisting should be thought of as "less than". We have to stay respectful. I have always known fascism would come to this country. My family was sent to Belzec...
April 17, 2025 at 4:27 PM
You must be taller than I am. I've always been small; I get patted on the head; I get called "Sweetheart" by 25-year-old men; I have to fight to get my opinion heard. And it has completely used me up. I am not cute, or harmless. It was like that woman was an anomaly.
April 17, 2025 at 4:22 PM
I should be entitled to a feeling without having to post my genetic profile. Why is it unaware? It's real. Old people are being eliminated because we are seen as drains on resources, and every time we are dismissed it makes it easier. BTW - I'm a Jew, and Native American, with black relatives.
April 17, 2025 at 3:20 PM
We are - all races of old people - being quietly murdered by being warehoused and losing our Medicaid and having our food pantries shut down and eventually our Soc. Sec. And while it's happening, we get reduced - molecule by molecule - by dismissal and being condescended to and disrespected.
April 17, 2025 at 3:13 PM
C'mon! You know that if I had, I'd have been banned. I wish for you old age and the willingness to risk actually trying to see why I feel this way. But you won't.
April 17, 2025 at 3:05 PM
I have black nieces and nephews that I fear for every day. I am educated. And if you think no one hates Jews, then I suggest YOU could use some educating. I am just waiting to have to wear a yellow star on my coat. Ageism and antisemitism are the last acceptable biases in our current society.
April 17, 2025 at 2:49 PM
Look - I have been called a dirty Jew and a kike all of my life - now the younger generations hate me because they think that means I support what Israel is doing, so I rarely mention it. When I say something else hurts me as much, I mean it. I have context. The current regime is killing old people.
April 17, 2025 at 2:37 PM
You have no idea how familiar I am with racial epithets.
April 17, 2025 at 11:51 AM
Yeah. My wish for them is to live to be old and see how they get treated, and then remember how they totally discounted the experiences of someone who has been on the front lines fighting against the things I'm being chastised for. Being ageist is the last acceptable prejudice I guess.
April 17, 2025 at 10:15 AM
I wish you had had one. I call it the club no one wants to belong to, but at least folks find out they aren't alone. And what has worked for one person might help another. I wish I had known more about Alz. when my mom started to succumb to it. I wouldn't have taken so much so personally.
April 17, 2025 at 3:50 AM
I run a caregiver group. I think I'll bring that up with them.
April 17, 2025 at 3:32 AM
Yeah. They just get so lost...
April 17, 2025 at 3:22 AM
When my mom got Alzheimer's, it was the last series of books she read, so we had all the books. She shared that interest with my nieces. I feel so sad to see such narrow thinking from the person who wrote those stories.
April 17, 2025 at 1:47 AM
I come from a racially mixed family. I've heard some other names. I have a basis for comparison.
April 17, 2025 at 1:31 AM
There ya go. I'm so old, I remember that.
April 17, 2025 at 1:27 AM
I think a term meant to remove my dignity and belittle my importance is comparable.
April 17, 2025 at 1:25 AM
That's hilarious. Can you see my race from there???
April 17, 2025 at 1:20 AM
Thank you for the much better response than the one prior to yours.
April 17, 2025 at 1:18 AM
Thanks for respecting my feelings. Wait until you get old then come back at me with that attitude.
April 17, 2025 at 1:16 AM
I hate that she ruined her own books for me.
April 17, 2025 at 1:12 AM
Those of us who have read some books are well aware of the bravery of the Canadian troops - and lots of us still remember how Canadians stood with us after 9/11.
April 17, 2025 at 1:11 AM
To me - a 72 year old woman - the term "little old lady" is the equivalent of the "N word". Take a look around. We're out on the streets resisting in large numbers and we really aren't adorable. Raise your consciousness. GEEZ!!!
April 17, 2025 at 1:06 AM