god i hope this doesn't get seen the wrong way. but nonbinary people who are SPECIFICALLY amab have it so fucking hard dude.

idk about any of your experiences, but a lot of cis people (AND confused queers) look at me doing literally anything and see it as a statement

me personally, i love coming off as androgynous. i want people to look at me and go "what is that" because I DON'T FIT IN and i don't WANT to fit in! but people see me doing ts and go "you do realize not all nb people are androgynous right" and i go I NEVER FUCKING SAID ANY OF THAT!!!!!!!!!!

being nonbinary is really fucking hard, because if you push for androgyny, people will be like "you shouldn't feel the need to do that!" but when you show any sign of literally any gender people will kill you dead

you're right: no, it's NOT important for people to know what your assigned gender at birth was. but hey! guess what! it's *MY *FUCKING GENDER. *MY* IDENTITY. if it's important enough to me that i want to put it in my bio, literally who fucking cares.

shoutout to me getting harrassed by several people a couple years ago for having "amab" in my tumblr bio

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huh. splatoon is fun when you're using a real, non-broken controller. hm.

this is giving me horrible splatoon 3 flashbacks

that'a great man

i count, i think? why not