Then again asking for nuance from the Internet is a bit much so the joke's on me lol

well enough, I'm certainly not practiced at putting my thoughts out there in a way that fully encapsulates every facet of my thought process, especially on social media, but just something I've been thinking about recently.

wondering if maybe the messaging is getting a little crossed. Do we want men to hold each other accountable and be better, or are we just throwing them all out and ostracizing all of them with 0 nuance just for the meme? The joke just doesn't land for me anymore. I hope I'm getting my point across

I'm giving men who perpetuate harm and violence a pass. I just think ostracizing every male presenting person as gross, just for existing, as a meme might be counterintuitive. It feels like it waters down the point to where it is meaningless. To be clear this is NOT a "not all men" post. I'm simply

But, sometimes it'll just be a dude existing. And for the meme someone will just be like "ew gross", and idk that's not funny to me? We can hate on men being gross, but maybe let's be a *little* more nuanced with this? I feel this way for so many reasons, but I also don't want to seem like

Legitimately wanted to sob 🥺