@ezewriter.bsky.social @lisasnowden.bsky.social I love this! Would you let us know how we can adopt a box (or if we just pick one and go for it)?

Same! I’d love to know too!

Yes! Like desperately needing that confirmation to validate our experience and feelings. That’s the best way to put it - balancing your inner world.

The took me YEARS to internalize. That while it’s nice someone can listen/understand, I’m the only opinion that matters on my trauma. And that I’m the only one who can heal it ultimately. It’s incredibly freeing, and made my relationships less of a letdown and less loaded.

I had this same exact thought when everyone is saying “then do it.” They’re itching to do it and will be soon enough.

💕 I’m very proud of him being on this journey to figure out what he wants (that doesn’t center their feelings), but the complicator is our kids. The guilt comes from revoking “access” to them, even when he knows they don’t deserve that when they gaslight him. Also their evangelical BS of it all 😑

I’ve been looking for the same thing! Haven’t found a lot yet.

I’m excited to watch this! My husband just went no contact w/ his parents and is struggling with the guilt and 2nd guessing. Thank you for all your insight (followed on over from TT) 💕

My fav comment I’ve seen on Bluesky thus far 👏

Thank you for this reminder (from a longtime TikTok lurker)

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I just wanted to say how much I loved this book on so many levels. I got to see Kim Wilson talk about it in person at @redemmas.org last month, and it was such a beautiful conversation. I’ve passed it along to so many parents who are already practicing abolition in their homes. So thank you! 💕