That too, personally those things are lost on me 😅 great pleasure for the guy though lol

Nope, not once did I say everyone. I did say that there's an entire community on tiktok and fb that see it as a slur as well as others I have met along with raised by. And that it could be triggering for others. Are there those I know who don't? Yeah but they aren't rude about it to others.

I never said it wasn't allowed. I'm not attacking you, just telling you that it's a slur seen by many and that it's not pretty to justify it's usage. This all started cause I just said it's a slur and you jumped down my throat like you stand for the whole community.

I'm not attacking you, all I said was it's a slur seen by many, you continued to try and justify its usage

Doesn't change the fact that by definition it is a slur in the community and it can be triggering for many others. To continue trying to justify yourself, also doesn't make the use of the word any better.

Any others I've met, plus an entire community on tiktok and FB see it as a slur. An alternative that's more welcomed that I've been told is traveler

As am I, and none of us want to reclaim the word that was used to demean us and very much see it as a slut

You might want to fix that, the G word is a slur