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Rasheida Adrianus
@rasheida.bsky.social
A Writer and Director who loves to create women-led content.

I'm currently a fellow in an amazing paid writing program, where I get to write the script for a drama series about the toxicness of my own love life and how I grew out of it.

#SingleAF
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Hey Y'all,

My name is Rasheida and I'm a Europe-based writer/director who just discovered this app! Can't wait to explore and connect with fellow creatives!👸🏿🤎
#addtoblacksky
#blacksky
Single AF Part 6: Two months later
It turned out Jayson and Kayla had been fucking for years. According to Jayson, that was all it was, but Kayla told me he'd gotten more serious with her after he and I had broken up six months ago...
February 10, 2025 at 8:40 PM
Single AF part 5: Questions
When you sleep with your best friend’s lover, and she finds out, I would imagine that the first thing you do is apologize, right? Well, Kayla didn’t. Instead, she blamed Jayson for keeping their ‘relationship’ a secret...
February 8, 2025 at 9:32 AM
Single AF Part 4: Betrayal
I refused to believe that my best friend was sleeping with the man I loved. There had to be a logical explanation for what I just read. I mean, Jayson had done some trifling shit in the past, but he wouldn’t take it this far, and Kayla would never betray me like that...
February 7, 2025 at 9:57 AM
Single AF Part 3: Hurt
So this man waited until after we had sex to tell me that he was becoming a father? Really Jayson? I wanted to cuss him out, but instead, I just sat there without saying a word...
February 6, 2025 at 1:08 PM
Single AF Part 2 - Change
As I stood in front of the mirror observing my body, I wondered if Jayson would notice I had gained weight. He was on his way, and I was nervous AF. After not talking to each other for six months, I unblocked his number today...
February 5, 2025 at 10:04 AM
Single AF Part 1 - I'm Lonely
It's been six months since I broke up with Jayson. I don't know if I can call it a breakup because we were never official. Can you imagine wasting five years of your thirties on a man who never claimed you? I did. I fell in love with my FWB...
February 4, 2025 at 8:38 AM
As mentioned before, I made some good money after turning my viral short story into a web serial, charging 35 cents per chapter. Here's how I stood out!
- A catchy title; 'Tis The Season For Some Toxic Dick'
- Playful marketing, like these free condoms with QR codes for my website.
#art
#blacksky
December 3, 2024 at 12:15 PM
Is being dickmatized really about the D? Or are we just so desperate for a connection that we settle for 20 minutes of empty pleasure to temporarily fill the void inside of us? These are questions I ask myself while writing. What do y'all think?
#blacksky
#baddiesky
#writingcommunity
November 30, 2024 at 8:58 AM
I posted a short story on FB that went viral, so I turned it into a web serial and started posting twice a week. Seeing positive results, I launched a subscription plan, charging 35 cents per chapter, and went from posting twice to four times a week, generating around €1500 a month #writingcommunity
November 27, 2024 at 3:18 PM
Speaking at an event today about my journey as a Black filmmaker and the latest project that I'm working on.
I'm really excited about this one, because it's at the opening of a Black-owned creative space and we don't have many of those where I live!👸🏿
#Blacksky
#addtoblacksky
#writingcommunity
November 25, 2024 at 9:23 PM
Do men really change after having sex with you? Or were the signs of him not being that serious about you already there? While reflecting on my dating history, I realized that the red flags were always visible. I just ignored them. Only to get hurt when he no longer tried to hide them.
#Blacksky
November 25, 2024 at 1:45 PM
As an Afro-Caribbean woman, I'm socialized to keep my business to myself, especially when it involves my love life. Instead, I'm writing a TV show about it, which is scary and liberating at the same time. Overcoming my fear of being judged has been crucial to my development as a writer.
#Blacksky
November 25, 2024 at 1:42 PM
As part of my research for the TV show I’m writing, I started watching some popular dating podcasts. Though entertaining, I’ve noticed it’s quite an ego-driven, blow your own horn type of culture. This is intriguing, and it gives me a lot to unpack. So, I’m definitely incorporating this in the show
November 24, 2024 at 10:59 AM
How did your parents’ love life influence yours? I believe that our parents’ love life is the most impactful example of how to interact and communicate in a romantic relationship. What is your take on this?
#SingleAF
#Blacksky
#Addtoblacksky
November 21, 2024 at 11:51 PM
Do y'all still use dating apps? I've banned them out of my life, cause I don't believe people still use these things to find a serious relationship. In my opinion the apps became an extension of hook up culture, which is fine, but just not for me. What do y'all think?
#SingleAF
#Blacksky
November 20, 2024 at 5:08 PM
Four years ago, I realized I needed to take some time to reflect on my dating choices. I kept ending up in situationships, and it was time to get to the root of it. I’m currently writing an unfiltered TV show about what I’ve learned during that process. I'm sharing the good, the bad, and the ugly!
November 19, 2024 at 12:53 PM
One of the lessons I've learned while reflecting on my dating choices was that I would always pick emotionally unavailable men and try to fix them, which was a clear display of avoidance behavior. Instead of dealing with my own brokenness, I tried to shift the focus to fixing others.
#blacksky
#love
November 19, 2024 at 12:12 PM
Finding real love in this day and age is hard. It's depressing when you keep ending up in situationships, while craving a real connection. So how do you break that cycle? I believe that it starts with taking accountability for your own flawed dating habits.
#SingleAF
#Blacksky
#addtoblacksky
November 18, 2024 at 9:05 AM
Hey Y'all,

My name is Rasheida and I'm a Europe-based writer/director who just discovered this app! Can't wait to explore and connect with fellow creatives!👸🏿🤎
#addtoblacksky
#blacksky
November 16, 2024 at 9:06 PM
Reposted by Rasheida Adrianus
Starter pack for Black writers.💅🏾😌
Comment if you'd like to be added.

Don't self-reject.
Don't look and think "they didn't specify x, y, z is welcomed. I guess it's not for me".

❤️‍🔥Repost for reach, please! TIA!❤️‍🔥

#WritingCommunity #BVM #AmWriting #AmQuerying

go.bsky.app/2pribzv
November 12, 2024 at 4:02 PM