and it just sucks that people probably don't realize they need to take a break from the dating scene cause they're not making the effort. or some other social issue like being too individualistic. or something! i dunno.

stupid vent post but i need to shout into the void.
yeah these are shit times. no one has time to date because of work or school and the world looks bleak. i'm on the same boat but i don't want to sail it alone anymore.

i show interest, i ask questions, but i expect that in return. i expect an equal partnership. but it seems no one wants to do some heavy lifting when it comes to keeping the conversation going.

like, it's okay to ask random or personal questions, that's why you're on the dating scene. of course infodump, but don't expect people to stick around if you also don't give them the time to infodump as well.