if the biggest problem you've faced in your life is "degendering", please shut the fuck up and uplift the voices of non-white trans women with *actual* problems

I can help you with that :3

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true, true. you're right, i shouldn't force myself. thank you for the advice! 😊

that's the problem, the only reason i'm learning german is for my wife (she doesn't speak it, but since she's of german descent, i want to write my wedding vows in german), and i'm not likely to step into a german-speaking country in the foreseeable future.

used to be a common occurrence on the trains here, but then the cops decided that's "aggressive panhandling" and "disturbing the peace" 🙄