Anyway. Please practice consent and negotiation with your partners. And for goodness' sake if you pick safewords and codes, RESPECT THEM. This isn't shit to be fucked around with recklessly.

Thank you for coming to my TED talk.

Kink isn't just another thing. It involves deep emotions and vulnerability. People ask me why I defend our local group's vetting process so much and this is exactly why. Because it's not just a 'good vibes only! No worries!' space. People can get hurt if consent is not respected as it should be.

Fall is very nice!!

You'll have to show me the ropes but yes, absolutely!