100% agree, a lot of my worry from the initial post stems from being told I’m not trans enough, which may be true to some, but I’m trans enough for myself. Sometimes I wish I would want all options (medical, legal, etc) just so society doesn’t make me feel like this tertiary outcast)

Great, I was worried the above post was only focusing on the medical aspect. I’m not transitioning medically, and was worried that was the context this was in.
I’m 100% socially who I am which isn’t what I grew up as - which qualifies for the social transition.