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Still have a headache and kids
Light rain for most of this walk
November 16, 2025 at 1:26 AM
Gave Maggie the end of the yogurt container again and she was appreciative
November 15, 2025 at 7:32 PM
Shabbat shalom mother fuckers they’re going in
November 14, 2025 at 10:29 PM
Real glad my dog woke me up and didn’t just shit on my floor again but now I’m awake forever so that’s great
November 14, 2025 at 9:50 AM
A coworker from Maine today told me she has never heard of an atmospheric river and said it was the most California shit she’s ever heard of
November 14, 2025 at 4:54 AM
It’s an atmospheric river out there so it’s freezer scraps on the stove for soup later
November 13, 2025 at 5:26 PM
Argued with my kid about him wearing a jacket for 10 min this morning. He finally relented and when I dropped him off there were kids in t shirts and shorts already soaked through. What are their parents/guardians doing
November 13, 2025 at 4:54 PM
I try and respect everyone’s good stuff but someone is coming over for Shabbat this week who is vegan and gluten free and Jesus Christ
November 13, 2025 at 4:53 AM
Storm is coming
November 13, 2025 at 1:22 AM
Just arrived at ikea and realized I forgot headphones oh fuck me
November 11, 2025 at 7:36 PM
I put this up with another terrible autocorrect typo so here it is with a dumber caption
November 11, 2025 at 1:38 AM
I’m too tired to do anything and I’m off tomorrow, today should also be a holiday
November 10, 2025 at 6:50 PM
Going to the ocean everyday
November 10, 2025 at 3:13 AM
Made peanut butter swirl brownies to share with some neighbors
November 10, 2025 at 2:09 AM
Have fun plans with good friends tonight and low key want to just putter around my house all night instead
November 9, 2025 at 12:46 AM
Having a griddle is such a big quality of live improvement
November 8, 2025 at 10:09 PM
The ocean was doing a lot of cool things today
November 7, 2025 at 5:23 AM
I’ve been so deep in grief these past few months. It’s completely knocked me over in a way I didn’t know it could. Looking forward to this even though I read very little nonfiction typically.
So uh.

I've spent the last five years working on a book about grief, mourning, who is allowed to grieve and how, and where we go from here, and...

you can now preorder it!
All My Dead Cats and Other Losses: Practicing Good Grief in a Culture That Fears Mourning
Practicing Good Grief in a Culture That Fears Mourning
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November 6, 2025 at 6:38 PM
World’s most perfect burrito
November 5, 2025 at 3:49 PM
My insomnia has been so fucked/I’ve been waking up so early these last few weeks that now my dog thinks it’s time to GO at 4am great
November 4, 2025 at 12:55 PM
Saw this on a walk this week and it warmed my heart. Filled with tampons and pads and safe from any weather.
November 4, 2025 at 5:45 AM
Me in the morning: yes! Light! Im starting my day!!!
Me at 5:56pm: there is nothing more depressing than this world
November 4, 2025 at 1:56 AM
Dreaming all night of driving through the city and trying to avoid all the sinkholes opening up everywhere and then waking up at 430 unable to sleep means your brain is very chill, right?
November 3, 2025 at 1:01 PM
Showed my middle schooler this pumpkin I walked by and he hated it
October 30, 2025 at 4:28 AM
Someone throw me into the shower and then put me to bed
October 30, 2025 at 3:19 AM