All men benefit from keeping things as they are. Where are the men demanding rights for women, and working to make fairer societies? There are a few good male allies, of course there are. A good man is one who does nothing awful? It’s a low bar. The status quo suits men, and change is hard.

So wanted to grow up to be Margo, and my life turned out Barbara. The closest I come is moments of “Why is everybody laughing?”.

You’re quite right, my comment did sound like I’d assumed that you didn’t. Great that you do - please do use this platform to mention what you do as it might encourage others to step up too. What do you do?

All men benefit from our world created by men for men. Sexism runs deep within us - and we need to do the work. Being happily married and not an arsehole isn’t going to dismantle the patriarchy and address sexism and misogyny.

Like making Peter Mandelson US ambassador.

Smiley polydactyl boy 🐾

Not always easy. I have been trying to buy a flu jab & they haven’t had stock of it. I’ll keep trying.

Listened to them all while on a long drive. Thank you for these wonderful programmes. Love you and Phil together. He tries so hard! lol

Hope it goes really well, and you get what you need. My sister had hers last year (we’re both in our fifties). It was a relief for her to know, and I know so much more about it, and our family’s other (not assessed) co-occurences now. Hope you find it as helpful. x

Is this the incest one? Them hard pass. It must have been thirty years, and I can still see the bed and the trolley 🙀