trans day of remembrance sucks because we’re the only ones who ever give a shit about it. if cis people took it as a day to go “wow through our callous disregard for the safety of trans people we sure did kill a lot of trannies” every year that might be worth something but we don’t even get that

Have you *ever*, in all the thousands of shootings in America, heard a word about a friend, roommate or partner of a shooter?