And now this account is blocked too. So she's going to insist I'm the arsehole. Fine. I was trying to be nice, and for whatever reason she doesn't want to accept that. Which saddens me.

That's no excuse for the assumptions she is making about me or my motives. As I said, a simple "thanks, but no thanks" would have sufficed.

A simple thanks but no thanks would have shut me up.

The assumptions you have made are really rather hurtful and uncalled for. No offense was meant.

That was my other account. I was genuinely trying to be helpful. But clearly you saw a motive that wasn't there. I'm sorry you feel that way.

Don't forget, some people do genuinely offer advice from a good place.