Phoebe Howell
phoebeismebee.bsky.social
Phoebe Howell
@phoebeismebee.bsky.social
Software engineer, trans woman, lover of cute and weird things

she/her
I hate to have to tell you this, but Jupiter is trans. Yup, the whole entire planet 😊
November 11, 2025 at 3:24 PM
You can exist in elite society as a trans person only if you refuse to threaten the status quo and commit yourself to the commodification of human life

Capital is deeply afraid of the class consciousness philosophically connected to trans existence, but will gleefully use you if you abandon it
November 11, 2025 at 2:30 PM
If you are well-connected and follow what's happening on trans Bluesky absolutely yes

I'm not saying it as a wholly unique point, more just emphasizing a falacy that might be underlying some of the resistance here in case the thread is seen by people who are less online (whatever the odds)
November 10, 2025 at 9:25 PM
@parkermolloy.com and @chrisgeidner.bsky.social have somewhat different niches with their publications, but they are excellent at what they do and cover trans issues very well
November 10, 2025 at 8:22 PM
Something it's also worth noting is that just because EITM is covering something or putting out more articles, doesn't necessarily mean those things are necessarily that significant

In which case you shouldn't try point to parallel coverage, because it wasn't needed in the first place
November 10, 2025 at 8:17 PM
I also recommend following these people on Bluesky - as a trans person, hearing different commentary helps a lot
November 10, 2025 at 8:15 PM
November 10, 2025 at 8:15 PM
Still here 💜

I will keep sharing + sending money as long as I can and hopefully, as long as it takes for you to feel stable again

You've got this!!!
November 8, 2025 at 6:24 AM
I can deal with normal anxiety (allegedly), but the possibility that I can't even tell the difference between everyone hating me and being not good enough for some arbitrary corporate standards often makes me want to give up trying to say things and go back into read-only mode
November 8, 2025 at 5:58 AM
the auto-hide reply / down ranking thing makes my anxiety worse

in addition to all the normal things that might be indicated by being ignored (unfunny, weird, dumb, bad, etc) and other concerns about existing on social media, I also get to worry about if I'm being judged by a fucking AI
November 8, 2025 at 5:58 AM
not to imply this is a hang up other people have, but just to say that doing something "irresponsible" in a safe way is actually okay and kind of the definition of being responsible

😂
November 8, 2025 at 5:00 AM
years ago I talked to my therapist about how irresponsible it feels to stay up until 4am hyper focused on something when I have time and she asked me

"did anything bad happen?"
"no... maybe in some minor ways, but not really"
"then you were a responsible adult. adults are allowed to make choices"
November 8, 2025 at 5:00 AM
good news - adults are allowed to do this!!!
November 8, 2025 at 5:00 AM
Labeled as 'rude'. Okay Bluesky.

"Fucked" seems like the polite term here relative to other things in my head... 🙄
November 7, 2025 at 4:41 AM
Yeah, I hate those darn trans issues!!1!

They took our normal issues (bad enough) and made them trans (ugh!!!)
November 6, 2025 at 11:38 PM
god, it's dripping with that so-often repeated, smug dehumanization

"Haha, fucking tr*****s, even when the people wanting to destroy you fail, it's important to remember nobody really cares about whether you exist

Popularity is everything!!"
November 6, 2025 at 11:19 PM