Don't feel pressured! If you don't feel up to it, that's okay! We'll be here whenever you do 💙

Agonizing isn't great either though. We should be able to discuss things without picking apart every word someone says. There's balance. I understand feeling the need to do so tho when you don't want to add to the problem and you want to be accurate and fair.

It's frustrating how some don't hold themselves to this kind of standard, especially about topics like this. They don't agonize over what to do, they just go with whatever they feel sounds best without concern for accuracy or responsibility. It drives me up a wall.