Parental Alienation
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Enmeshment:
A condition in which two or more people, typically family members, are involved in each other’s activities & personal relationships to an excessive degree, thus limiting or precluding healthy interaction & compromising individual autonomy & identity.
#ParentalAlienation
A condition in which two or more people, typically family members, are involved in each other’s activities & personal relationships to an excessive degree, thus limiting or precluding healthy interaction & compromising individual autonomy & identity.
#ParentalAlienation
Narcissists survive on chaos, control, and manipulation, they study your soft spots, push your buttons, and drain you until you feel empty.
November 24, 2025 at 9:03 PM
Narcissists survive on chaos, control, and manipulation, they study your soft spots, push your buttons, and drain you until you feel empty.
Narcissists don’t evolve through accountability.
November 24, 2025 at 7:01 PM
Narcissists don’t evolve through accountability.
Narcissists don’t miss *you* they miss the power, attention, and emotional supply you provided. When they sense you’re done, they switch tactics. The insults stop, the charm returns, and suddenly they’re understanding, affectionate, and attentive.
November 23, 2025 at 9:43 PM
Narcissists don’t miss *you* they miss the power, attention, and emotional supply you provided. When they sense you’re done, they switch tactics. The insults stop, the charm returns, and suddenly they’re understanding, affectionate, and attentive.
Narcissists are terrified of abandonment.
November 23, 2025 at 9:41 PM
Narcissists are terrified of abandonment.
Narcissistic exes treat court orders like a menu, picking what suits them and ignoring the rest.
November 23, 2025 at 9:27 PM
Narcissistic exes treat court orders like a menu, picking what suits them and ignoring the rest.
Narcissistic abuse costs lives, and just because it might be easier not to notice or care about suffering, your ignorance reproduces generational cycles of bullying and top-down power structures which do violence to the most vulnerable.
November 23, 2025 at 3:01 PM
Narcissistic abuse costs lives, and just because it might be easier not to notice or care about suffering, your ignorance reproduces generational cycles of bullying and top-down power structures which do violence to the most vulnerable.
Narcissists train you to stay silent about your feelings.
November 23, 2025 at 1:50 PM
Narcissists train you to stay silent about your feelings.
November 23, 2025 at 1:50 PM
For a narcissist, the legal system isn’t about truth, it’s just another tool for manipulation and revenge.
November 22, 2025 at 11:00 PM
For a narcissist, the legal system isn’t about truth, it’s just another tool for manipulation and revenge.
Manipulation is when they blame you for your reaction to their toxic behaviour, yet conveniently ignore the disrespect that pushed you to that point.
November 22, 2025 at 10:58 PM
Manipulation is when they blame you for your reaction to their toxic behaviour, yet conveniently ignore the disrespect that pushed you to that point.
Time might heal your wounds, but it doesn’t erase the truth.
November 22, 2025 at 10:55 PM
Time might heal your wounds, but it doesn’t erase the truth.
Narcissists have a trademark smirk, a subtle but chilling expression that appears almost without their awareness.
November 22, 2025 at 9:29 PM
Narcissists have a trademark smirk, a subtle but chilling expression that appears almost without their awareness.
November 19, 2025 at 10:01 AM
A narcissist’s goal is simple: remove every voice but their own.
November 18, 2025 at 11:21 PM
A narcissist’s goal is simple: remove every voice but their own.
Behind the mask of the narcissist is a thumb-sucking, childish, temper-tantrum crybaby who refuses to take responsibility and grow up.
November 18, 2025 at 11:16 PM
Behind the mask of the narcissist is a thumb-sucking, childish, temper-tantrum crybaby who refuses to take responsibility and grow up.
Acting confused was how they avoided accountability and made you feel like the problem.
That’s not miscommunication, that’s manipulation.
That’s not miscommunication, that’s manipulation.
November 18, 2025 at 10:48 PM
Acting confused was how they avoided accountability and made you feel like the problem.
That’s not miscommunication, that’s manipulation.
That’s not miscommunication, that’s manipulation.
Narcissists often deflect blame, invalidate your feelings, and seek control in relationships.
Identifying a narcissist can be simplified using the 3 Ds: Defensiveness, Dismissiveness, and Dominance.
These traits often overlap, creating emotionally harmful dynamics in close relationships.
These traits often overlap, creating emotionally harmful dynamics in close relationships.
November 18, 2025 at 10:46 PM
Narcissists often deflect blame, invalidate your feelings, and seek control in relationships.
Identifying a narcissist can be simplified using the 3 Ds: Defensiveness, Dismissiveness, and Dominance.
These traits often overlap, creating emotionally harmful dynamics in close relationships.
These traits often overlap, creating emotionally harmful dynamics in close relationships.
November 18, 2025 at 10:45 PM
Identifying a narcissist can be simplified using the 3 Ds: Defensiveness, Dismissiveness, and Dominance.
These traits often overlap, creating emotionally harmful dynamics in close relationships.
These traits often overlap, creating emotionally harmful dynamics in close relationships.
Deep down, the narcissist really hates you—not because of anything you did, but because your strength, empathy, and capacity to love expose everything they lack.
November 18, 2025 at 10:42 PM
Deep down, the narcissist really hates you—not because of anything you did, but because your strength, empathy, and capacity to love expose everything they lack.
They couldn’t handle the mirror, so they turned your reaction into the problem.
November 18, 2025 at 10:24 PM
They couldn’t handle the mirror, so they turned your reaction into the problem.
Narcissists are masters of manipulation.
November 18, 2025 at 10:04 PM
Narcissists are masters of manipulation.
Admitting to not reading or understanding court findings is a serious breach of professional standards.
#ParentalAlienation
#ParentalAlienation
November 18, 2025 at 9:57 PM
Admitting to not reading or understanding court findings is a serious breach of professional standards.
#ParentalAlienation
#ParentalAlienation
Parental alienation involves one parent manipulating a child to reject the other, often tied to narcissistic behaviours.
November 18, 2025 at 9:55 PM
Parental alienation involves one parent manipulating a child to reject the other, often tied to narcissistic behaviours.
Under Section 47 of the UK's Children Act 1989, local authorities must conduct enquiries if there's reasonable suspicion of a child suffering or risking significant harm, including emotional abuse from ongoing parental alienation.
#ParentalAlienation
#ParentalAlienation
November 18, 2025 at 9:54 PM
Under Section 47 of the UK's Children Act 1989, local authorities must conduct enquiries if there's reasonable suspicion of a child suffering or risking significant harm, including emotional abuse from ongoing parental alienation.
#ParentalAlienation
#ParentalAlienation
Neglect of safeguarding duties:
If alienation is ongoing, it constitutes emotional abuse, which social workers are obligated to address under the Children Act 1989 (Section 47).
Failing to act on credible concerns risks harm to the children.
If alienation is ongoing, it constitutes emotional abuse, which social workers are obligated to address under the Children Act 1989 (Section 47).
Failing to act on credible concerns risks harm to the children.
November 18, 2025 at 9:53 PM
Neglect of safeguarding duties:
If alienation is ongoing, it constitutes emotional abuse, which social workers are obligated to address under the Children Act 1989 (Section 47).
Failing to act on credible concerns risks harm to the children.
If alienation is ongoing, it constitutes emotional abuse, which social workers are obligated to address under the Children Act 1989 (Section 47).
Failing to act on credible concerns risks harm to the children.