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sandy 🇵🇸
@okramom.bsky.social
uncool mom ⚡️punjabi / canadian / londoner⚡️ socialist ⚡️ decolonisefest
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there were definitely some doing that! but i mean in general where every time i'm on instagram 50% of it is people i don't follow posting rage bait and more keeps coming up...i just wanna see my friends being happy and see some nice recipes and clothes, not some weirdo trying to rile me up!
November 14, 2025 at 2:11 PM
same and 100% agree <3
November 14, 2025 at 2:09 PM
??? we aren't talking about child abuse/the law, we're talking about kinship structures and how relatives are seen/named in the many different cultures in the US. you said technically it's his cousin, but technically it's not in *his* culture. there's no law in the US around who you can call auntie
October 28, 2025 at 8:33 PM
the only time i've "used" it is when google pops up something on a search but a lot of the time it's bs and totally inaccurate
October 28, 2025 at 8:26 PM
but his culture is still indian, so it's not "technically wrong"
October 28, 2025 at 8:18 PM
i think this is most cultures, including most white cultures. whoever is writing these headlines is completely out of touch with how things work in most communities
October 28, 2025 at 8:17 PM
the thing is, in indian culture that person *is* technically an aunt and not a cousin because that's how our kinship structures work. so to us, calling parents' cousins "cousin" isn't technically correct. they're our aunts/uncles and their kids are our cousins
October 28, 2025 at 8:10 PM
me too! that post just made me go back and listen and watch some of the old videos...such a gem!
October 28, 2025 at 8:03 PM
Yeah it’s definitely not limited to non western cultures, it’s mostly just self-isolating snobs who don’t have meaningful relationships that don’t get it
October 28, 2025 at 4:14 PM
I honestly think it’s a narrow section of individualist conservative white American society that don’t do this. I have so many aunts and cousins and idk how or if I’m related to a lot of them but I still see them as family
October 28, 2025 at 4:02 PM
how does she still have a column. truly embarrassing
October 26, 2025 at 10:14 AM
Reposted by sandy 🇵🇸
Saying *WEST MIDLANDS POLICE* are an islamist organisation is fucking circus clown bullshit. But now, Starmer is feeding the narrative that they're acting outside of the government and Starmer himself can't control them.

He's achieved this within half of a 24hr news cycle.
October 17, 2025 at 10:13 AM