Jay
ogjaysays.bsky.social
Jay
@ogjaysays.bsky.social
Recovering activist, traveler, writer and self-declared humorist. Exhausted #homo. #Queer space with queer lewdness and queer humor. It's very queer in here. nsfn.
TIFU my algorithm. Need more sexy people and less sexist people.
August 26, 2025 at 4:17 AM
If you need a bright side of the whole marriage equality shenanigans, if it's overturned, we can go back to having a bunch of amazing gay orgies.
August 13, 2025 at 2:05 AM
Joined a cruising 101 meetup group...

They meant boats. #ConfusedQueer
July 22, 2025 at 4:45 PM
Got a mock up of a poster promoting an upcoming event where I'm speaking. It feels weird to see photos of me on posters that aren't on the wall of the post office. #Infamy or just #Fame?
July 12, 2025 at 12:12 AM
For some reason, the word "manifesto" always makes me think of pesto. Then I start thinking of pasta. Then I'm hungry. Anyone else? Just me?
July 8, 2025 at 4:33 AM
I have one very large pot and one medium sized pot to fill with more plants and joy. I have several colorful plastic pots I'm considering using for something, but also recognize I am a bad plant parent. The hibiscus and curcuma ginger plants are now potted at least.
July 5, 2025 at 9:36 PM
Friends, we are safe. The flooding around The Fairy Ranch is not nearly as severe as what is being seen nearby in #Kerrville. Our home here is on a cliff with the river a hundred or so feet below us. Thank you all for the text messages and love.
July 4, 2025 at 9:30 PM
The Fairy Ranch is getting some new flowers. ♥️🌈
July 4, 2025 at 9:22 PM
Flyers for Pride events are like, "Join us at The Eagle for the greatest party of PRIDE!"

As if there isn't an Eagle bar in just about every major city in the U.S. Which Eagle y'all?!?! #travelinggay problems.
June 23, 2025 at 9:47 PM
Don't say gay. Shout it. #Pride #DontSayGay
June 23, 2025 at 6:37 PM
A few pieces from my #ArtOMat collection. I love these little treasures.
June 19, 2025 at 6:51 PM
Spent the afternoon in Brooklyn with the amazing [redacted for their privacy]. Great people and great food is all it takes to make me a #HappyHomo. Made it to our room in Midtown for some much needed relaxation before #debauchery begins - I might mean a nap. #NYC #travelinggays #QueerRising.
May 20, 2025 at 8:53 PM
#IndependenceHall in Philly where a nation against a theocratic monarchy was born in order to deliver a theocratic totalitarian government. 🤪
May 19, 2025 at 6:22 PM
A few images from today. My feet hurt. #jerseyshore #asburypark #nyc #travelinggays.
May 19, 2025 at 1:38 AM
Flying in to EWR today we had great views of the #NYC skyline. Saw The Empire State Building and got a really clear view of the Statue of Liberty framed in the plane window. I should have taken pics. With that done, no need to play tourists anymore. No pics from the plane bc I'm lame.
May 18, 2025 at 12:53 AM
Heading home soon from #SLC. I don't think there is anywhere else in the world my #gaydar short circuits like this. So many obviously gay men who talk about their wives. I wonder why that might be? ... ... ... ... 🤪
May 7, 2025 at 5:33 PM
I went to get a coffee earlier and when I got back to my office, there was a random peanut butter cup on my desk. Normal people might throw it away or inquire as to it's origin story before devouring. I am not normal. It was tasty. I hope it was drugged.
April 14, 2025 at 8:25 PM
I read that the em-dash (—) is now a big indicator for something being AI written. Nearly everything I've written for the past 30+ years would be suspected as AI in that test along with some of the most famous literary giants (historical and modern). Script writers are particularly suspect. #AI
April 12, 2025 at 9:05 PM
I'm diving into the world of AI social media tools! Trying out different platforms like #SamsungAI and #Gemini to see what they can do. ✨

(AI generated above, human now: Seems to be a fail with character limitations. I had to delete a ton. I AI responses are novellas!)
April 12, 2025 at 6:55 PM
Okay, now that I'm playing over here, I need to find people to follow. I've set up tags to follow or whatever. Where my #gays at? Any good #QueerArtists to follow - any medium even performance art? Would love some recommendations. #lgbtq
March 31, 2025 at 3:58 PM
My latest Art-o-Matic finds. Picked up at Stage West in Ft. Worth and now on display in my office with the other ones I've either picked up or been gifted with over the years. #Art #TravelingGay #FtWorth
March 31, 2025 at 2:49 PM
Next stop, Blanco, TX at Oro Blanco for #gelato made from water buffalo milk. The Pistachio is delicious. Ciao, y'all. #RoadTripping #TravelingGay #Texas
March 30, 2025 at 9:18 PM
Stopped in to Bear King Brewing Company in Marble Falls, TX while road tripping. I'd have loved more #GayBears to be present, but no. Not what it is. No beer for me as it's my turn to drive, but babe had the Foggy Eyes IPA. Decent French Dip with salty fries. 😁 #TravelingGay
March 30, 2025 at 8:30 PM
More #TravelingGay road tripping around. Not to be mistaken with #cruisinggays despite the bathroom picture (the cruising pics are PM only 🤣). Poor Mondriaan, inspiring public restrooms. These are from Campbell Park in Lampasses, Texas.
March 30, 2025 at 8:03 PM
Some more of the things I've seen while traveling about the DFW area. The #Rainbow threads at the Amon Carter were so cool from all sorts of angels. #TravelingGay #Art
March 30, 2025 at 3:50 PM