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Learning what I can about the internet.
Post about various things, some of which I wouldn't under sane circumstances.
I like posting music in languages I don’t know.
Posts regularly deleted using bsky.jazco.dev/cleanup
No clue. Was just offering something that is also plausible considering that people do bad things for money or custody or because they got mad and jealous about something.

Of all the goings on, feel like this one ignores the more sinister options because it is difficult to not center the admin.
November 27, 2025 at 2:25 AM
The guy could just be a pos and decided to get a divorce without getting a divorce or something. Lot of different types of horrible could be responsible for that.
November 27, 2025 at 2:12 AM
Gonna prep for tomorrow, cya around
November 27, 2025 at 12:13 AM
I can write the rude replies off by just imagining they had a hard life. Make up a vicious backstory if they made me feel particularly angry.

Yesterday I pretended someone grew up with their dad constantly asking their mom if he (the dad) was ugly after looking at them (rude guy) randomly.
November 27, 2025 at 12:12 AM
Oh, not for that reason. I can get the weirdos. Honestly surprised people have held up as well as they have. Thought we were going to deal with way worse but we are lucky enough to only deal with people interpreting what is said in a brutal way and being jerks about it.
November 27, 2025 at 12:07 AM
Similar to hatred being a heavy burden to bear.
Guess the choices are:
Bear the hatred
Or
Bare the hatred
November 26, 2025 at 11:46 PM
Imagine ‘poor communication skills’, ‘inability to respond in a timely matter’, or ‘unprofessional’ may be used in gossip by less understanding people, damaging reputations and alienating folks.

Just a what-if exercise and pointing out harms I consider plausible, but worth keeping in mind.
November 26, 2025 at 10:57 PM
Not to mention new technologies that seem to show up randomly. Something as simple as using discord or slack can impact your life. Outside of knowing how to use the product, it takes time to adjust to it in a behavioral sense.
November 26, 2025 at 10:48 PM
Also a cost to society. One kid doesn’t have the talent to outweigh 100 kids or even 10. Not to mention the havoc some rich kids wreak on society when they grow up. Lot of them grow up decent but that doesn’t matter if it just takes one to make a government change course.
November 26, 2025 at 10:19 PM
quiet*
November 26, 2025 at 10:01 PM
Seems people celebrate anniversaries of that happening in that location.
November 26, 2025 at 3:02 PM
People may wonder what that will change if that is what got us here. Might need a plan they are confident Dems will carry out.
Deserved or not, if people feel that Dems have played politics instead of using a silver bullet they were hiding then it'll be a problem.
November 26, 2025 at 2:44 PM
Deliberately using a simple description but I'm not sure if people will infer that bigoted people will:

-naturally want to attack the fog, thinking their problems are its fault

-Problems will persist(devil's bargain complete)
November 26, 2025 at 1:14 PM
And it's a pain in the ass to get rid of cause people tend to double down on things they've doubled down on before. We're probably all idiots cause we probably make the same fundamental choice that causes our mistakes.
That said, bigotry is the most pathetic fundamental mistake to choose.
November 26, 2025 at 12:48 PM
Yeah, I think of bigotry as a hindrance on clarity.
Like clarity of thought is a clear sunny day and bigotry is a dense foggy night. Hard to see the problem through bigoted fog. The problem is always going to be what you're bigoted about.
November 26, 2025 at 12:45 PM
Crossing my fingers.
Gonna be critical of random candidates that pop up with a ton of campaign money from big dollar donations.
November 26, 2025 at 9:24 AM
More convinced the devil's deal is bigotry. People can hate who they want and real solutions/progress are put off in favor of creating more problems.
November 26, 2025 at 9:03 AM
Wonder if they’ll be able to sell energy costs from data centers as the fault of Dems to avoid the brunt of consequences brought on by their deliberate choices
November 26, 2025 at 5:36 AM
Something like Friends but in the Trek universe with a heavy alien cast.
November 26, 2025 at 4:23 AM